Nina1995 Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 So! Me and my new boyfriend have sex quite a lot, He was a virgin and in his late twenties so I expected that, however! we are both pretty kinky and really enjoy role play. Now the only thing in this whole situation that I am unsure about is that he likes to talk dirty (WHICH I LOVE!) but he talks dirty about getting me pregnant (which is a little taboo to the both of us considering our families so its exciting to talk about). However he does talk about it a lot and the lust and sound of almost desperation and need in his eyes sometimes give me this gut feeling that he REALLY wants to get me pregnant. We already discussed this and right now I'm not ready but if we had dated for another year that if it "accidentally" happened it wouldn't be such a problem. I don't know what to read into this, I'm scared of getting pregnant right now because we have so much to look forward to with our relationship and I really just want to enjoy being with him alone for at LEAST another year. Should I bring this up and ask him or assume its just a fantasy and he is okay with waiting?
Amalyn Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 I would definitely, at the very least, casually bring it up one time after he does it. Pregnancy is a big deal and a life changing step. You need to be open with him about how you feel. Communication is important in every relationship.
mystikmind2005 Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 I'm pretty sure things like pregnancy and marriage are two things you should definitely NOT take seriously from a man in the bedroom!!!!
nouedis Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 Without communication there is no foundation being established.
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