guild11 Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 Hello guys, I'm 25 and I'm in love with my girl girlfriend and loving someone for the 1st time in my life. I cant get my mind of her nor hold myself so I end up telling her I love every night, she says the same. My question is... Is it wrong in any way to tell your GF you love her everyday ? Should I hold myself ? Does she takes me for granted for being like that ? 1
Giggle Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 We aren't every day. And a lot of the time it will be right after he said or did something and I'm giggling when I say I love him. He says it regularly when he has to go. There isn't a right or wrong. If you guys are on the same wave length it's awesome. It's when you aren't that it sucks and the amount you say isn't going to change that. My ex he started to annoy me saying it all the time, because there were issues popping up and he was putting me on a pedestal. So if your I love yous come with a pedestal, it's the pedestal that is the problem not the verbalization of how you feel. 3
S_A Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 If you guys are on the same wave length it's awesome. Pretty much this. Also, don't say I Love You with your head, say it with your heart. If you really do love her, your heart will always know when to say it.
d0nnivain Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 DH & I tell each other we love each other multiple times per day. Whoever suggested to you that mutual expressions of love weaken you has no idea what they are talking about. If she wasn't saying it back, then it would be problematic. 2
GoBlue Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 What do you think is better, expressing your love often or not expressing it at all? As long as you mean it and understand what love requires, let it fly. To be very clear, you aren't in love because this person makes you feel good. You know you are in love when you put the needs of the other person ahead of your own. Feelings come and feelings go. Feelings ebb and feelings flow. Love is a commitment that stands the test of time and is present whether there are feelings or not. This is the reason you don't say "I love you" too soon and until you know in your heart you are committed. I hope this works out for you both!
candie13 Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 oh GOD, that is soooo sweet! I was standing in line to go to a concert and there was this couple in front of me - he was in front of her, when all of a sudden, he turned around to her and said really naturally "I luv you, my darling"... I was melting... pfff, get a room ! I think there is a phase where all emotions just fly out of you and you need express them over and over again. It's a great phase... enjoy it while it lasts ! 2
candie13 Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 ^^^ Did the girl say anything back? yup, yes she did . Honestly, I was watching them as if I was seeing unicorns before me. He was quite cute, tall and slender, beautiful blue eyes. She was more petite and delicate. What shocked me was that they were not really young, like those teenagers all over eachother. They weren't even holding hands, he was a step in front of her, holding on to his back pack before the concert. He just naturally turned around and said that to her. And she responded back. I think they kissed briefly after that, you know, shortly. And then both started to stare at me and smile because I was watching them more attentively than a small boy looking at the icecream man serving him the first icecream of the season on a hot summer day. Must be great to able to integrate that in everyday life, like that... 1
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