peter999 Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 Short post. Gf of 5 years. We had a bad argument three months ago and neither one of us has reached out. The fight was about a guy of course. I got really pissed and walked out. Neither of us has sent a text or anything. She was very apologetic and pleaded her case, which at the time I was too angry to want to listen to. Now I am thinking of opening up the lines to smooth things over but my gut says to just leave sleeping dogs lie. Im not looking for judgements, just maybe a few experiences shared as to how to open communication or if I should just leave it and wait for her to contact me. Not sure if the guy is an issue she told me outright he wasn't. Advice welcomed.
d0nnivain Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 You can't fix life's big issues through electronic communication. You need face to face I'd send a text that said something along the lines of When you wanted to talk 3 months ago I was too angry to listen. I'm sorry about that. Now that I have calmed down, I'd love to talk. Would you please meet me next Tuesday at ________ (pick someplace casual & public)? If you hear nothing back, she's not interested. Do not try again.
mightycpa Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 Short post. Gf of 5 years. We had a bad argument three months ago and neither one of us has reached out. The fight was about a guy of course. I got really pissed and walked out. Neither of us has sent a text or anything. She was very apologetic and pleaded her case, which at the time I was too angry to want to listen to. Now I am thinking of opening up the lines to smooth things over but my gut says to just leave sleeping dogs lie. Im not looking for judgements, just maybe a few experiences shared as to how to open communication or if I should just leave it and wait for her to contact me. Not sure if the guy is an issue she told me outright he wasn't. Advice welcomed. smooth things overFor what? To apologize for flying off the handle? To be friends? To assuage your guilt? To rekindle? I think your intent is both a little vague and very important to your next move.
quattrob Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 "Martin...don't listen to these idiots. They act like love guru's ... they say move on, dont look back...they know nothing about truly loving someone. No $&$)$ wonder they are on here. Dude, at the end of the day, you know you love someone when you think of them all of the time. That doesn't go away with nc bull****, and don't look back crap. If you love her, tell her, tell her face to face that she is the most beautiful and important person in the world to you. If she doesn't feel the same way, at least you can live with knowing you did it right...tell her, tell her today. Don't listen to the dip****s on here who think they know everything. Let me know how it goes." OP you make me laugh, after what you posted on the other thread. Why are you asking for advice from us "dip****s"? You need anger management, that will help you in anything in life. 3
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 "Martin...don't listen to these idiots. They act like love guru's ... they say move on, dont look back...they know nothing about truly loving someone. No $&$)$ wonder they are on here. Dude, at the end of the day, you know you love someone when you think of them all of the time. That doesn't go away with nc bull****, and don't look back crap. If you love her, tell her, tell her face to face that she is the most beautiful and important person in the world to you. If she doesn't feel the same way, at least you can live with knowing you did it right...tell her, tell her today. Don't listen to the dip****s on here who think they know everything. Let me know how it goes." OP you make me laugh, after what you posted on the other thread. Why are you asking for advice from us "dip****s"? You need anger management, that will help you in anything in life. Hahahaha very awesome post
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