Author youngw27 Posted July 31, 2015 Author Posted July 31, 2015 Little update: Things haven't been great. Things have been getting more and more serious with both. Guy 1 actually told me he see's us as in a relationship now. Therefore i've been distancing myself from guy 2. He deserves so much better than me. Guy 2 is perfect and I wish i could be with him but my heart is with Guy 1. I honestly wish i could choose Guy 2 because he would spoil me where Guy 1 can't because he is always busy. Love is a confusing thing. Guy 2 needs someone who isn't confused and knows they want him. I wish it was me though. SO CONFUSED STILL!! Thank you everyone for your responses.
confuzed23 Posted July 31, 2015 Posted July 31, 2015 (edited) Guy 1 is continually leaving himself an "Out".....don't get attached.....I care for you but will end up hurting you.....only with the real threat of you leaving him did he express an willingness to commit AND STILL left himself an out..he will end up cheating on you and hurting you sooner or later in my opinion. He after all has the excuse ready for it. Guy 2 treats you right and seems to want a relationship, but you it doesn't seem that you care about him too much and at least you admit it in your posts. You are still expressing strong feelings for the other guy, all the while guy 2 seems to be taking you seriously and treating you well. If you have real feelings for guy 2 somewhere down there, you will end up regretting not giving him a chance. If not do both of you a favor and cut it off with him so he can fins someone else. Either way you need to express you feelings to both and cut ties with the other.....chose wisely and good luck. That's my 2 cents. Edited July 31, 2015 by confuzed23
giblesp Posted July 31, 2015 Posted July 31, 2015 Ah yes. Multiple dating in the modern world. Straight after a breakup. If you have to decide between 2 men, neither is the choice for you. If your not sure in the early, honeymoon stage your not going to be sure years down the line. Go for someone who knocks you off your feet to the point where you barely notice anyone else. And take a bit of time and space when coming out of a relationship.
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