SouthpawSaviour Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 I thought I'd share some stories with the ladies here and see if they would not mind sharing some of theirs as well. 1. Brittany. I was 14 and we were at the fair with two other friends. We were standing in an area by the vendors when out of nowhere she gave me a light slap. I guess she was being playful. 2. Brittany (same girl) would later slap me for getting a little touchy feely with her a few times when we were all hanging out. 3. Nora. I provoked her to hit me by lightly tapping her cheek a few times. She apologized and said she didn't mean to hit me that hard. Although, the next day in class, I did it again and once again she slapped me during class. This was in high school. 4. Angie. I was in an acting class with her and she was suppose to fake slap me for a scene. 1. It was quite real. 2. It hurt like a mother effer. 3. We rehearsed the scene about 6 times before doing it in front of the entire class. 5. Nrupa. A friend of mine in college. Don't remember what I said to her, but it was at a party. She gave me some medium strength slaps, as well as a backhand. 6. Amanda. A girl we hung out with in college gave me a light slap for yelling while her friend was on the phone. 7. Natalie. We were drunk and I was making fun of her in the car for being too wasted. That's all I can remember. What were the stories behind when you slapped a guy (I know a lot of girls have found themselves in a situation that warrents it)?
empresario Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 What an odd thread. I think this is a good time to state that I am against abuse. Male to female, female to male, and every other combination not listed. It is never OK to violently attack someone. It won't be popular, but I do think if a woman is intentionally hurting a man, then the man should be able to respond and protect himself. The old, "never hit a lady...but a woman that hits you isn't acting lady-like". I get it, I get it, men are more powerful and it's different. But an appropriate level of protecting ones-self is something with which I agree. For example, I had an ex once come at me with closed fists because I told her I didn't want her moving in (she was just bringing stuff over every time we hung out without discussing it). After the second time she hit me (without retaliation) I pushed her to the ground and she flipped out claiming I was going to jail for abuse. HOWEVER on topic...I have only been legit 'slapped' by my mother. I told her to shut up when I was 15. I deserved it. It sounds like you've deserved most of the slaps towards you as well. Soooo. 1
wb1988 Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 (edited) The Angie, Nrupa and Amanda ones were ****ed up. What an odd thread. I had an ex once come at me with closed fists because I told her I didn't want her moving in (she was just bringing stuff over every time we hung out without discussing it). After the second time she hit me (without retaliation) I pushed her to the ground and she flipped out claiming I was going to jail for abuse. I once had an ex that I drove crazy (in a bad way) and she literally pushed me against the wall and started choking me but only for a few seconds as she realized what she was doing. After a few weeks she did it again, so I pushed her away. This was in her house and immediately after we told her family what happened and she as well as her family focused on me pushing her rather than her choking me. It's a ****ed up feminist world especially if your the non-violent type of guy. To get your attention. I usually get a tap on my chest, shoulder or arm. Since when do girls slap you to get your attention? Edited July 22, 2015 by wb1988
smackie9 Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 Ya to let you know you have violated them in some way .......in the olden days they called it a man being fresh... As for the other experiences...it's just plain violence.....not necessary.
smackie9 Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 For me if I'm touched inappropriately, I don't slap them, they get a kick to the ballz. 1
gaius Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 I once had an ex that I drove crazy (in a bad way) and she literally pushed me against the wall and started choking me but only for a few seconds as she realized what she was doing. After a few weeks she did it again, so I pushed her away. This was in her house and immediately after we told her family what happened and she as well as her family focused on me pushing her rather than her choking me. It's a ****ed up feminist world especially if your the non-violent type of guy. Don't think my girlfriend could push me up against a wall, much less choke me no matter how hard she tried. You must be a small guy or you date large women. Physical fighting can be incredibly erotic foreplay for women. As long as the guy knows what he's doing and doesn't escalate into hurting her.
CTRL C Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 I've never slapped or otherwise physically retaliated at any man or boy at any age, and never intend to. I just find it unnecessary. Call him out if he's offensive, no need to get physical over words. The only caveat is if you feel to be in physical danger - then obviously do what you need to to get away. Otherwise, though, I see no situation that warrants using violence to display your displeasure. 1
mrldii Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 For me if I'm touched inappropriately, I don't slap them, they get a kick to the ballz. Gotta believe someone named "smackie" would be the ultimate authority on how and when - or when NOT - to appropriately slap a guy.
SammySammy Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 When I was around 11 or 12 years old, I caught a frog on the playground. I walked up to one of my classmates and asked her to hold her hand out as I had a surprise for her. When she held her hand out, I put the frog in her hand. She screamed and slapped me with her other hand. My friends and I walked away doubling over in laughter. Her name was Stephanie. I think .... That was the last time a woman slapped me. I think adult women just know not to go there with me. Something in my eyes ... my demeanor ... lets them know it's not a good idea to put their hands on me in anger. I don't know what it is, but I've never been slapped ... except after a childhood prank.
mystikmind2005 Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 Never been slapped by a woman in my life.... although i have been punched plenty of times growing up with two older sisters! lol
RoseVille Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 In my mid-20's, I was on a first date with a guy about 10 years older than me. We were in the car driving to dinner. He reached over with his right hand and literally grabbed my crotch, hard. So I took the outside of my left fist and connected it with his nose. And then I got out of the car and hailed a cab and went home. 1
nouedis Posted July 23, 2015 Posted July 23, 2015 I've been slapped for multiple reasons. Sex. Lies. Cheating.
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