Author 1DAY Posted July 24, 2015 Author Posted July 24, 2015 (edited) So as I mentioned in my first post, it seems that my ex has been using me for sex. The last time he did this was last Thursday. He made promises that we would work on things and get back on track. He said he loved me and missed me....we were intimate. The next day he text me good morning and I text him back and asked how he was doing. This was at 9:30 am. At 7:00 p.m., I still hadn't heard anything, so I text back "everything ok". Still nothing, and I know my ex ALWAYS has his phone and is usually quick to reply. I called him the next morning around 10:00 a.m., he sounded extremely annoyed. I asked if there was a problem. This is when he explained to me that "he felt nothing" when we were intimate and said "maybe I don't love you as much as I think I do" and then told me he had to go and hung up. Now I am no expert on this, but to me this behaviour seems so disrespectful. Usually a man will tell his woman she's beautiful and he had a great time the night before; not ignore her completely and then say he felt nothing.....and even IF he did feel this way, wouldn't it warrant picking up the phone and having a heart to heart? So fast forward to yesterday, I had to meet my ex to sort out a financial obligation. I called him on the phone beforehand, and he was incredibly abusive. The conversation went something like this: Me: Hi, I didn't hear back from you. Are you still meeting me? Him: Yes, I just left work and will be there within the hour. Me: Ok, do you have a more specific time so I don't have to wait around? Him: You're so annoying and whiney. Don't call me anymore. If you have a question, text it to me. Me: Why are you talking to me that way? Him: Because I don't have time for you. I told you I wanted to work things out and was happy to see you, but that wasn't good enough for you. You are so impatient....like listen lady, I don't have time for you. Me: You did say you wanted to work things out but then you ignored me the next day after being intimate with me, and in my opinion that's not showing any sort of effort to work anything out. Him: Did you ever think that I treat you the way you deserve to be treated? Oowww that one didn't feel very good, did it?.... There was more, but this is the part of the conversation that stood out the most in my mind. When I saw him briefly, he was very rude and disrespectful as well. I told him I didn't want to argue to which he replied "Good girl. Smart move". The man I met was sweet, caring, loving, gentle.....I don't recognize this person. I am very upset today trying to make sense of it all. I can't believe he spoke to me that way Edited July 24, 2015 by 1DAY
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