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Monm82 Established Member

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For me, a very outwardly feminine woman with a strong personality who leads the relationship.

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S_A Established Member

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My current partner is my ideal partner!

 

Couple things I love about her off the top of my head:

 

  1. She is honest. And not the obnoxious blunt-type honest (which is cowardly). Being blunt is more about the person's ego and how they think they're "blessing" the other person with the privelidge of being able to hear their views/opinions. My partner will be honest even when it inconveniences her; even if it means her ass is on the line. Her honesty is not about her comfort, but the value of her word.
     
  2. She is NOT judgmental.
     
  3. She is always smiling. She is naturally a happy and optimistic person and my mood is always improved when I see her. It also helps that she probably has one of the best looking and sexiest smiles you could ever see!

 

Edit: too bad she won't read any of this :lmao:

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GemmaUK Established Member

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He takes responsibility for his own life - the good and the bad past and present.

Considerate & respectful to all including me.

Doesn't take himself too seriously.

Not a self proclaimed nice guy because they never turn out to actually be nice. The ones who don't proclaim it are actually a lot nicer in my experience! :laugh:

Attractive to me.

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GemmaUK Established Member

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My current partner is my ideal partner!

 

Oh shush with the smugness fella!

 

I can't find one like I'm looking for!! Lol!

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A smart and compassionate man.

S_A Established Member

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Oh shush with the smugness fella!

 

I can't find one like I'm looking for!! Lol!

 

Your list is doable though. You list a lot of good core and fundamental traits/characteristics that would set a strong foundation for the man. And I feel you on the self proclaimd noce guy thing.

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honesty, loyal, faithful, understanding along w/ compromising, respectful, etc

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someone who is intelectually, emotionally and sexually obsessed with me.

 

dominant + has strong values + curious + honest + knows himself & his emotions well.

 

likes Nutella + doesn't call football a "soccer" and hates peanutbutter & jelly sandwich.

 

that's it. i don't ask for much. :D

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someone who is intelectually, emotionally and sexually obsessed with me.

 

I wish I thought of that one

 

likes Nutella

 

After reading the above, you know that Mini is a smart woman. I'd recommend you a bread to use with the nutella, but I know they don't sell it where you live. You can find it in Los Angeles, but its pretty much unattainable in the rest of the U.S. (Except maybe New York).

 

hates peanutbutter & jelly sandwich.

 

I seldom eat peanut butter and jelly sandwhiches, but I do love them! One of the gyms I used to go to had a place next to it that made peanut butter and jelly protein shakes (amazing). Sorry Mini, looks like we can't be together. I know it's heartbreaking but I'm sure you will find other great guys out there for you :p;)

 

Edit: I actually don't use jelly for the sandwhiches. I prefer to use raspberry preserves instead (sometimes strawberry). It's much better and does not have a "childish" or "cheap" taste to it.

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minimariah Established Member

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I'd recommend you a bread to use with the nutella, but I know they don't sell it where you live. You can find it in Los Angeles, but its pretty much unattainable in the rest of the U.S. (Except maybe New York).

 

what is it called? can i make it, does it have a recipe? :) i usually eat churros with Nutella. :love: but most of the time, it's just me + spoon + Nutella.

 

Sorry Mini, looks like we can't be together. I know it's heartbreaking but I'm sure you will find other great guys out there for you :p;)

 

nevermind, i'll find.... someone like youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu, i wish nothing but the best for youuuuuuuuuuu TOOOOOOOOOO! *hits them high notes*

 

Edit: I actually don't use jelly for the sandwhiches. I prefer to use raspberry preserves instead (sometimes strawberry). It's much better and does not have a "childish" or "cheap" taste to it.

 

i love jelly but hate peanutbutter & every kind of peanutbutter combo. it's just so... thick and sweet. LOL. it's like i'm eating diabetes.

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Someone with whom I have flowing, honest, great verbal and non-verbal communication with = Trust, amazing sex, interesting conversations.

 

I like someone who has achieved things and remains humble, modest. The "salesman" type is not for me. I like quiet and calm power. The self assured kind of mystery.

 

Someone who knows how to enjoy the small lovely moments and has a great sense of humour, even in annoying situations.

 

Handsome (for my taste), manly mannerisms, deep calming voice.

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S_A Established Member

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what is it called? can i make it, does it have a recipe? :) i usually eat churros with Nutella. :love: but most of the time, it's just me + spoon + Nutella

 

Armenin Lavash bread. You will find it in Iranian and Armenian markets, but nowhere else.

 

It's a versatile bread and also the only way to eat kebob (amazing with hummus, too). Armenian kebob places here in LA serve their dishes with Lavash; Greek, Iranian, and Arabic places tend to serve pita (that's one way you can tell the difference).

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Armenin Lavash bread. You will find it in Iranian and Armenian markets, but nowhere else.

 

It's a versatile bread and also the only way to eat kebob (amazing with hummus, too). Armenian kebob places here in LA serve their dishes with Lavash; Greek, Iranian, and Arabic places tend to serve pita (that's one way you can tell the difference).

 

i know about lavash! :D

my grandmother used to make that bread, i'm sure she has a recipe.

 

lavash, kebob & pita - we got it all here on Balkan! ;)

that food is usually served in Bosnian places in Croatia, where i live.

 

lavash is very similar to a bread we eat a lot in Croatia/Serbia/Bosnia - it is called "lepinja" - not sure how to translate it. & we eat it with specially prepared meal -- https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ćevapi

 

:)

 

p.s. PITA literally means a pie in croatian, it is spelled exactly like that, fun fact! lol

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Wow I'm sort of impressed. And that dish you linked to actually looks pretty freaking good.

 

If you can get some lavash, you may want to try this if you ever want to impress guests with something unique.

 

RECIPE FRIDAY: Hazelnut Wrap | Grecian Delight Foods

 

Is essentially a Lavash wrap with nutella, chopped hazelnuts, and ice cream. Tell me that does not look amazing! Unfortunately I try to stay away from dairy products, so it's something I'd only eat when I really feel like I need to indulge.

 

Edit: these are all things I like about my partner btw. Nutella wraps (she really does love nutella).

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minimariah Established Member

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And that dish you linked to actually looks pretty freaking good.

 

it is! it's super delicious. bosnian food in general is incredibly good.

 

 

this looks absolutely divine! :love:

 

p.s. your girlfriend sounds absolutely amazing. :love:

 

can't trust folks who dislike Nutella. seriously. Nutella and Beyoncé.

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Tayla Established Member

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charming, genuine natured, intelligent with a humble ability, tall,lean,within my age group , impecable smile, honest,well groomed, thirst for adventure, healthy morals. quick wit. can show compassion even for himself. Guys who are emotionally out of tune.. need not apply.

ohh and a good kisser and hugger! :)

Ps : SA, love the way you described your gfs type of honesty... wish more folks could learn that way... its honorable.

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Ideal woman for me:

 

-dark

-curvy

-financially stable

-emotionally open

-knows herself

-kind

-funny

-laid back

-creative

-reads

-enjoys travel

-early riser/likes sex in the morning(tough one, I know)

-enjoys cooking

-good relationship with her family

-admires me

-looking for something meaningful and lasting

-not looking to have kids, but not opposed to it either

-likes cats

-loves swimming in natural bodies of water

-plays a musical instrument

-maintains her body by exercise

-craves intimacy

-enjoys marijuana

-nurturing

-loves to baby me

 

(sigh)

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DrReplyInRhymes Established Member

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My ideal partner isn't a list of qualifications already made in my mind,

I've found that interesting quirks AREN'T what gets my gears to grind.

Even with being open to many different types of people in all walks of life,

There's a few qualities that'd have to be present for there to be no strife.

 

Integrity is a must, especially for an attractive woman you see,

Not entertaining men's advances, especially when it's not even when she's around me!

Honesty is highly sought after, and would need to be highly regarded as well,

Telling me the truth about **** shows me her character, and a strong one is sexy as hell.

Intelligence can be based on perspective, but I don't want to be with an idiot all the same,

Anyone can shoot the **** with me, but I want a partner who understands more than just the love game.

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anduina Established Member

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To fully describe my perfect man, Tom Hiddleston. :love:

 

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I don't see a point in having an "ideal partner", because even if I found them, I wouldn't be good enough for them, and they wouldn't be attracted to me, anyway. I'm human garbage. I'd consider myself lucky if I could even end up with an unpleasant, unfaithful woman, let alone someone more "ideal".

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SA, love the way you described your gfs type of honesty... wish more folks could learn that way... its honorable.

 

And believe it or not, I was thinking "hell yes" when you said "good hugger". I approve! Hugging is so underrated/under appreciated!

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Nuts, this sounds like a shopping list. :p

 

Alright, how about perfection? I don't have a clue what this looks like but let's have a go. :rolleyes:

 

When he says hello and I melt, that's it. Of course if he's an arse then shoo, he's done.

 

I have met a wonderful man. G makes me cum every time and is smart, funny and a pain in the butt. What else would I ask for? :love:

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G makes me cum every time

 

^ The main thing. :D

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More Tom. He's so amazing!

 

 

dang he is suave and got a smoothness about him, good choice! Panache comes to mind.

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