Clarkwg Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 iv NOT managed to have no contact for any period due to having a daughter with my ex. we split over 6 months ago & seeing her regular has made it difficult for me to move on. anyway due to events that happened at the end of june iv now managed to arrange things now where i dont have to see her at all. so im now 3 weeks in to strict no contact but it seems to be getting harder, not easier. is this normal?
drade Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 iv NOT managed to have no contact for any period due to having a daughter with my ex. we split over 6 months ago & seeing her regular has made it difficult for me to move on. anyway due to events that happened at the end of june iv now managed to arrange things now where i dont have to see her at all. so im now 3 weeks in to strict no contact but it seems to be getting harder, not easier. is this normal? Yes, completely normal. I just passed three weeks, it was real hard that week. It seems to come in waves. As you know, focusing on your daughter is priority. It seems like your doing that. No contact isn't easy, it's harder to detach in most situations. Keep it up.
bigfred Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 ill tell you from experience, its not easy on the third week, just hang in there it gets better!!! im also on my third week and my 5th time around
Author Clarkwg Posted July 22, 2015 Author Posted July 22, 2015 thanks for the replies. fortunately iv got absolutely no desire or temptation to get in touch with her which is good but the problem is iv been thinking about her a lot this week more so than the last couple of weeks & i also had a dream about her the other day that we got back together. its bothered me that she is back in my mind a lot.
erklat Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 My ex never really left my mind for two years now. It gets better. urge to contact her will go away. I was very long in nc when I still had panic attacks. So if you're only thinking about your ex, that's great .
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