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After a devastating heartbreak, there are lessons that can be learned about yourself, others, and life in general. I know all of you are feeling the most pain you have probably felt in your life- but try to understand that this is an opportunity for growth!

 

One lesson I've learned is that even if you offer someone the world, you feel complete and utter passion for someone, and think they are the "one"- if they do not love themselves or feel the same, it doesn't matter. My ex texted me yesterday apologizing for basically being a prick during the relationship and understanding that he was "emotionally void". There's a lot of other **** that went down too that destroyed my trust in him and felt disrespected a lot. This is why it is soooo important to love yourself and be the best person you can be BEFORE you get into a relationship. Do not rush into one just because you are lonely!!

 

Love yourself and be kind and gentle to yourself- I am definitely trying to... We only get one chance at this thing called life. Yes there will be devastating heartbreak and loss but it doesn't mean that you, yourself, are unlovable...there are people who will appreciate and care for you the way you deserve.

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the thing i learned was that, the more people you put between you and you SO, the more people they'll be between you and our SO.. If you can't deal with your SO .. that's not the right person for you. Love is the opposite of Fear

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