willduggan Posted May 5, 2005 Share Posted May 5, 2005 well ive been apart from my ex for about a month, little more then that now. this was the second time she dumped me and a week after the fact she was with another guy so i thought that helped me along a bit in the healing...well the last couple days shes been sending me IM's and i respond friendly enough. well today she called and we talked for around an hour, not about anything important, just talked, i cant describe how much i enjoyed it, but then after we said our goodbyes ive been sitting around thinking about everything, worrying, wondering, ugh..i was doing so well! i thought i could finally live my life again, i have been on a date since we broke up(which sucked btw) but all in all i thought it was finally getting better and now im back to the mindset "oh god will she call" "hmm wonder what shes doing right now" lol. ive read it over and over in the forums of it happening but thought it wouldnt to me lol boy was i wrong. so im kind of torn at the moment, maybe i wont be in the morning but here goes, do i try to restablish contact with her? i dont know if im just opening wounds or if i really do want her back in my life...*sigh* lol i dont even know if shes interested! blah, ok im done rambling, thanks for any insight;) -will Link to post Share on other sites
No Foolin Posted May 5, 2005 Share Posted May 5, 2005 Its like getting kicked in the nuts; isn't it? Your her B game now. If I read your post correctly she clowned you for another dude(he's her A game). I've got some good news and some bad news. Bad first, your relationship is over. Even if you pull down some sitcom get back together gig, she is going to clown you again. good news, your relationship is over. You now have the pleasure, once again, the pleasure of getting your head right, and existing for you (rock). First things first, no contact, PERIOD!!!!! Its over cowboy. In order to get back your soul your going to have to go on a trip. I call it "the long walk". To get you through the night tonight. you need to find yourself that is very distracting. Since your a dude you must have a playstation, right? Get on a game and kill it, don't think about her, tonight is about numbing your memory, tomorrow is about taking back your life. For Thursday and the next say (however long you need) read my link below. No Foolin Link to post Share on other sites
Author willduggan Posted May 5, 2005 Author Share Posted May 5, 2005 lol wow thanks a lot no foolin, your absolutely right. damn right ive got some games. that doesnt sound too bad right now haha. thanks for getting my mind in the right place. Link to post Share on other sites
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