aboucher21 Posted July 21, 2015 Share Posted July 21, 2015 Just wondering what your thoughts are on deleting an ex on social media if you have no ill will towards each other and are cordial with each other but still have feelings for the ex? Link to post Share on other sites
Mathematics Posted July 21, 2015 Share Posted July 21, 2015 I wouldn't block. I just wouldn't go onto said social media site until I am over her. Link to post Share on other sites
Gus Grimly Posted July 21, 2015 Share Posted July 21, 2015 Personally, I can't trust myself not to go and snoop on my Ex. I just blocked my Ex in every facet I could. It's my time to heal, reminders of my Ex are only obstacles hindering my healing and growth. IMO, trying to be 'friends' with an Ex is a horrible idea. NC is imperative to a full recovery. I'm sorry if it hurts their feelings but it's about ME now. My recovery is a selfish endeavor and I'm not ashamed to admit it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author aboucher21 Posted July 21, 2015 Author Share Posted July 21, 2015 Personally, I can't trust myself not to go and snoop on my Ex. I just blocked my Ex in every facet I could. It's my time to heal, reminders of my Ex are only obstacles hindering my healing and growth. IMO, trying to be 'friends' with an Ex is a horrible idea. NC is imperative to a full recovery. I'm sorry if it hurts their feelings but it's about ME now. My recovery is a selfish endeavor and I'm not ashamed to admit it. My thoughts are it doesn't seem fair to myself that I cant go on social media and see what my friends are up to and what not because of my ex but then again I feel like it is cold. We attend the same college and share many mutual friends so avoiding her will be impossible Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted July 21, 2015 Share Posted July 21, 2015 If deleting your ex helps you, then delete away. It's your social media page. Run it how you want, not how other people think you should. If anyone calls you out on it, tell them it's your social media page and your business. I regularly delete friends who I've lost contact with, haven't spoken to for ages, were in one of my social groups but dropped out, etc. I haven't been struck by lightning yet. Link to post Share on other sites
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