martin1992 Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Hi Everyone, I would like some help in understand a situation: Lets say a girl gets gigs and leaves her partner for someone (whom they get together with after a month and a half after a long term relationship) That new relationship ends after 6 months when the girl breaks up with the new guy due to disappointment lack of connection etc. At the same time another guy was lined up and she gets with the new guy after month from breaking with the 6 month relationship. Now, the long term one was definitely a true relationship the 6 month was a rebound so what will the new one be? People are usually advised to be single for a period of time before jumping into another one.
Ariess10 Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Sounds like the person is afraid of being alone .. Some people just hate the thought of not being with someone, I'd hate to be dating that person 3
aboucher21 Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 I agree with the previous user. Sounds like she has some self esteem issues and is not ready to commit to someone.
Author martin1992 Posted July 21, 2015 Author Posted July 21, 2015 Thanks guys, Apparently she strung the rebound guy for a month and a half before breaking it off with him, lol. Anyway she opened up to the new guy and told him everything about her previous relationships...so does this mean she is ready to commit?
aboucher21 Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Not necessarily. Maybe she just trust this person or enjoys their company. only time will tell.
Gus Grimly Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Sounds like the person is afraid of being alone .. I agree as well. Some people can't bear to be alone so they hop from one relationship to the next. The bad part of this is that those relationships won't ever lead to true love. These people usually end up in relationships they're not truly happy with. They've never given themselves time to heal, which is important for many reasons. 3
Author martin1992 Posted July 21, 2015 Author Posted July 21, 2015 Not necessarily. Maybe she just trust this person or enjoys their company. only time will tell. Thanks! This guy opened up to her first so she just reciprocated, lol. I agree as well. Some people can't bear to be alone so they hop from one relationship to the next. The bad part of this is that those relationships won't ever lead to true love. These people usually end up in relationships they're not truly happy with. They've never given themselves time to heal, which is important for many reasons. Thanks, do people really need to be single for a while after a break up?
Gus Grimly Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Thanks, do people really need to be single for a while after a break up? Emotional wounds are just as real as physical ones. Breakups can be confusing and cause much pain. Giving yourself time to heal is important. Jumping into a new relationship might help subdue the pain but it's just temporary. It's also unfair to the other person because you're not over your Ex. You should go into a new relationship where you can commit yourself 100%. 1
casey.lives Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 It's different for every case. if two emotive people get together,or if two traditionalist get together, or if a mature emotive gets with an open minded traditionalist , then there is no telling. it's about the combination.
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