sunseeker Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 so we met in Skout (the app) and chated for few weeks and had several dating. We had happy moments and she never rejected me dating her out. At that time I was in a relationship which I didnt feel all right, and maybe becoz of her, I broke up with my gf. She was shocked coz she thinks its her that made me breaking up. She told me her exbf also dumped her by the same reason I dumped my gf (a long and boring relationship). We kissed and had sex after several dating, and she did admitted she also likes me, but she has many concerns, such as I am one yr younger..and other concerns..which she didnt let me know. We still have regualr dating weekly and also sex, she told me she needs time to think of, and she wants to know me more as we just know each other for less than 3 months. I really like her, I am not sure if she is playing me or just want to keep FWB relationship, which obviously I dun want. What can I do now??
GoBlue Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Tell her you don't want to be a FWB and stop having sex. If you really want a relationship and you really want to get to know her for who she is, sex doesn't help that process it hinders it. The dating process is for the purpose of determining compatibility. It is very rare for two people who connect emotionally and commit to one another to then not be compatible sexually in marriage. I suppose you have to decide what you want more - casual sex or committed love. 1
Author sunseeker Posted July 21, 2015 Author Posted July 21, 2015 Tell her you don't want to be a FWB and stop having sex. If you really want a relationship and you really want to get to know her for who she is, sex doesn't help that process it hinders it. The dating process is for the purpose of determining compatibility. It is very rare for two people who connect emotionally and commit to one another to then not be compatible sexually in marriage. I suppose you have to decide what you want more - casual sex or committed love. sure i want committed love, not feeling happy after having sex, cox i duno what the relationship is
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