skier10 Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Thanks a ton for the help, I'm sort of invested in this girl - I've known her for a long time and have come to really like her. A friend of mine got dumped by her boyfriend several months ago. Since then for a while we did a lot of things together but kept it in strictly friendly area since I didn't want to become a rebound by asking her out too soon. As time went on she got much more flirty and we were going on pseudo dates without either of us acknowledging that is was dating. Recently we haven't seen much of each other due to both of us having to travel. Over this time she has seemed to cool toward me (though admittedly, this is mostly by me trying to interpret her text responses and frequency). I am going to see her this weekend and I really want to ask her out. Do you still thing it would be good to do so even though she may have cooled some? Did she want me to then did she back off because she thought I was not interested? If so would asking her now still receive a positive response?
Toodaloo Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Just do it. None of us know what her response will be. Perhaps you could put it in a way that would be more appealing to her. What sort of person is she? Is she over her ex now? Does she ever talk about other guys? What sort of things does she say? How much physical contact does she initiate? Does she hug hold hands etc?
Author skier10 Posted July 21, 2015 Author Posted July 21, 2015 Just do it. What sort of person is she? Is she over her ex now? Does she ever talk about other guys? What sort of things does she say? How much physical contact does she initiate? Does she hug hold hands etc? She seems to be much more over her ex than she was. She does talk about other guys, although she hasn't ever mentioned anything serious with another guy (just like oh that guy is hot or I matched on tinder with this guy). There is a lot of physical contact, initiated by both of us. Hugs, arm around her while walking, etc.
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