danmillar Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 I can get really bad with this. I sometimes find myself nitpicking the minor physical flaws of a girl I've just met. Or, I tell myself a story about how she's 'not at my level' somehow. And then later I'll realize, 'wow that girl was hot--I was being way too picky again.' It just happened recently. I met a girl who was quite cute--she was staring at me repeatedly over the course of a couple of hours. I thought 'eh, I can do better.' Then I saw her again a few days later, probably on a date from online dating, thinking 'damn I should've gone for her!' How can I focus on the fact that I find a girl attractive ie attractive enough, even if she is not quite model or super model caliber? LOL
preraph Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 You don't have to lower your standards. You only have to stop only having one standard, that being hotness.
guild11 Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 I think you should socialize more, I had like 4 girlfriends in the past which were extremely good looking, I enjoyed having a hot girlfriend but at the end of the day it was all sexual stuff only, there wasn't any actual feeling. I used to say that I want a fit girlfriend, with great butt and boobs and pretty, pretty demanding standards. Today I'm with a woman that I love very much, I love her so much that it drives me crazy sometimes and guess what ? She isnt a fit girl nor the best looking. I never lowered my standards I just fell in love.
Brigit_1 Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 I can get really bad with this. I sometimes find myself nitpicking the minor physical flaws of a girl I've just met. Or, I tell myself a story about how she's 'not at my level' somehow. And then later I'll realize, 'wow that girl was hot--I was being way too picky again.' It just happened recently. I met a girl who was quite cute--she was staring at me repeatedly over the course of a couple of hours. I thought 'eh, I can do better.' Then I saw her again a few days later, probably on a date from online dating, thinking 'damn I should've gone for her!' How can I focus on the fact that I find a girl attractive ie attractive enough, even if she is not quite model or super model caliber? LOL LOL....Are you a model? 2
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