AirGordon2245 Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Basically a girl I used to date hit me up recently stating that "she thought of me and thought she would say hi." she originally broke it off with me. Every time I would try to communicate with her, she would be brief with me and acted like she was always busy, so I backed off. Now all of a sudden she is hitting me up saying she regrets ending things with me and that I was a good guy, and she got scared. Something is telling me she is on the rebound and that I shouldn't mess with her. Any advice?
mortensorchid Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Find out why she is attempting to contact you, if you are so curious. And, keep your expectations low. She'll flake out on you again sometime soon. 1
aloneinaz Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Basically a girl I used to date hit me up recently stating that "she thought of me and thought she would say hi." she originally broke it off with me. Every time I would try to communicate with her, she would be brief with me and acted like she was always busy, so I backed off. Now all of a sudden she is hitting me up saying she regrets ending things with me and that I was a good guy, and she got scared. Something is telling me she is on the rebound and that I shouldn't mess with her. Any advice? How far did the dating go before she flaked out? Did you have sex?
fitnessfan365 Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Some people love the chase and want what they can't have. That's why she only seems to be interested when you're not around. But if you get nostalgic, here's my advice. Put her in the FWB zone and let her do all the contacting. When she reaches out, cut to the chase, invite her over, and hook up. Then leave the ball in her court to contact you again and repeat. Since she dumped you and has acted flaky, I wouldn't put any real effort into it or pursue her to get together. 1
Jame22 Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 I was a good guy, and she got scared. hahahahahahahaahahahaahahahahahaah BS lol lulz Something is telling me she is on the rebound and that I shouldn't mess with her. Correct to a point, I wouldn't completely blow her off but set some boundaries and keep her at a distance until she proves her self worthy
IronZ Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 It's a cat and mouse game my friend. She wants to be chased. Some girls do it for the validation, some just get bored. The moment you stopped giving a rat's ass about her, you became more elusive and therefore attractive to her. She can't have you, so now she's doing the chasing. The thing with these situations is, who knows if there's ever any end to it. You may be dealing with a back and forth dance here for a long long time. What's the fun in that? I want my relationships to be secure. I don't want mind games and pointless drama. Find someone stable.
Amalyn Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 Proceed with caution. Do not set any expectations. And do not seem eager to hear from her.
Space Ritual Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 Find out why she is attempting to contact you, if you are so curious. And, keep your expectations low. She'll flake out on you again sometime soon. LMFAO! Thats the best reply I've seen here in weeks:)
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