Is he controlling or head over heels?? Just got into a relationship

[Butterfly88]

Hi I've had bad relationships before and i have seemed to have met the most loveliest guy now my ex was a borderline And he has damaged me to a certain extent and now I'm over thinking any warning signs of personality disorders or controlling behaviour. I am female and 27 and met a boy who's just turned 24 online, first date we met we just clicked instantly nothing was awkward it felt like we had known ach for months in the space of a few hours within around 3 weeks he asked me to be his girlfriend and because I just feel like it's so perfect i said yes and now everything still is perfect and I know it's early days it's been just over a month but he seems besotted with me, could it be completely innocent, his first love? He said he's never really had a relationship before me but he messages me all day everyday and says things like I'm the girl he wNts to marry and he just knows I'm the person he wants to spend his future with, which if things continue like they are then I'd want that too but he's practically also said he loves me and it's not been two months yet, am I maybe looking into this too much is there just innocent naive feeling guys out there? Which can feel

Like this and be completely genuine? He doesn't show other signs of being controlling. A tiny bit of jealousy maybe but nothing odd, he seems to have loads of friends and we see each other once a week and at the weekend so the time we spend together isn't unhealthy but I guess I just need to hear from other people what they think

[GemmaUK]

Read up..

 

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/mind-body-soul/abuse/524069-book-suggestions

 

Too charming initially can either be charming or not so great...

[casey.lives]

i'd say "questionable" gullible

[d0nnivain]

I don't see controlling. I see inexperienced & immature. It's wayyyy too soon for you to be talking about marriage. He's living some fantasy. It's not real & you should not assume he has enough life experience to understand what he's saying.