Zzyxx Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 So I'm trying to go NC from this girl I've been dating for four months cause she's doing the slow fade and generally jerking me around, but I'm insanely attracted to her so it's proving difficult. I want to reward myself for each day I make it, but the only things I can think of that I'd enjoy would be unhealthy like booze or food. Is there any little ways that you guys encourage yourself other than simply reminding yourself you're maintaining your dignity and/or sanity, cause I know that is the benefit in the long run, but we all know how this goes and sometimes that's not enough even though it should be. Any tactics appreciated! 1
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 buy a moneybox which you either need to smash or use a can-opener to open.... Every time you go through a day without thinking of breaking NC, put in a dollar. For however many times you've thought of breaking NC, remove a cent. (I'm assuming USA, but consider a reasonable amount in your denomination, if not....) At the end of the year, treat your mom to a slap-up meal. 2
Satu Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 New clothes. A really good haircut. Good aftershave and body care products. There are other things I'm sure, but thats just what came to mind. Take care.
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