GoldenGirl2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 He's always liking my post/pictures on fb even more than my boyfriend. Could he have a crush on me or is it just because. Hes a super friendly guy? I posted a picture in my swimwear today and he was the first to like it. Does that mean anything? Fyi. He's a middle aged married man & has NEVER made any flirty advances or comments to me. Am I just over thinking this?
Qboro90 Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Yes you are overthinking it. Based on his age he probably just likes being friendly and doesn't know the perception that "likes" on Instagram or Fb can sometimes imply to younger girls. Have you met him at all? A couple times or a good amount? If he's never made any comments or advances towards you k don't see any reason to believe he has a crush on you. Also, are you bothered by him liking your pictures at all? Do you kind of like it? If you found out he did have a crush on you would you be creeped out or flattered? I think if anything your bf would be a little pissed that this guy was liking your bikini pictures but even that is not a big deal. Don't think to much about the likes tho , he's just being nice/social 1
Amalyn Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 I hate social media. Too many people put too much importance on it. 2
Author GoldenGirl2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Author Posted July 20, 2015 Yes you are overthinking it. Based on his age he probably just likes being friendly and doesn't know the perception that "likes" on Instagram or Fb can sometimes imply to younger girls. Have you met him at all? A couple times or a good amount? If he's never made any comments or advances towards you k don't see any reason to believe he has a crush on you. Also, are you bothered by him liking your pictures at all? Do you kind of like it? If you found out he did have a crush on you would you be creeped out or flattered? I think if anything your bf would be a little pissed that this guy was liking your bikini pictures but even that is not a big deal. Don't think to much about the likes tho , he's just being nice/social Ok & this is what I want to believe. I did catch myself being attracted to him at one point, but i think it'a because he does a lot that my bf doesnt do. Other than that this/him is not something I think about everyday
Author GoldenGirl2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Author Posted July 20, 2015 I hate social media. Too many people put too much importance on it. I wasnt trying to do this.
smackie9 Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 IMO a man doesn't invest his time in someone he isn't attracted to. You said he does things your BF wouldn't do? This guy is making an investment in you BUT he is doing it covertly by not making comments or advances.....he's married but that doesn't mean he's dead. He can still have a fondness for you. 1
Author GoldenGirl2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Author Posted July 20, 2015 IMO a man doesn't invest his time in someone he isn't attracted to. You said he does things your BF wouldn't do? This guy is making an investment in you BUT he is doing it covertly by not making comments or advances.....he's married but that doesn't mean he's dead. He can still have a fondness for you. How is he investing in me? By liking my pictures?
Qboro90 Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Ok & this is what I want to believe. I did catch myself being attracted to him at one point, but i think it'a because he does a lot that my bf doesnt do. Other than that this/him is not something I think about everyday Seems like you actually have a small crush on this man. My advice to you would be to realize that he is MARRIED, has kids, and works with your bf. Anything involving him is not going to end well for all parties involved. Unfriend him on social media to prevent further temptation. Even if you're just getting an ego boost from him liking your pictures, that's how these things start. You're allowing it and giving him an opening. If you're happy with your bf then respect the fact that this guy is a coworker and is off limits.
jen1447 Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 IMO a man doesn't invest his time in someone he isn't attracted to. You said he does things your BF wouldn't do? This guy is making an investment in you BUT he is doing it covertly by not making comments or advances.....he's married but that doesn't mean he's dead. He can still have a fondness for you. Yeah, he probably likes you.
smackie9 Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 How is he investing in me? By liking my pictures? Nothing to worry about he is just admiring you from afar.....
Diezel Posted July 20, 2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Is what you are really trying to ask is if you have a chance with him?
Author GoldenGirl2015 Posted July 20, 2015 Author Posted July 20, 2015 Nothing to worry about he is just admiring you from afar..... Ok. Thanks
Recommended Posts