difficult_decisions Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 She invited me over one night and we got a little drunk. When we were getting into it, she started getting a little hesitant moving my hands away. She was playfully saying that she thought I was a gentleman, but now I'm being a "bad boy" and that she wanted to do it, but shouldn't. Eventually we did. But I can't help but think what she meant by that? Did she want to hold off because she was looking for something more? I don't want her to have the wrong thought that I was just in it for the sex. How would I bring it up? Or would I even bring it up, or wait for her to talk about it first?
ThisisIt606 Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 She was drunk, so she couldn't fully consent to sex in the first place. The fact that she was "playfully" moving your hands away indicates that she probably wouldn't have had sex if she was 100% sober. However I think you should contact her text, call however you keep in touch. Keep the line of communication open, take her out on a proper date to show her you're interested in more than just sex ( if that's the case).
Author difficult_decisions Posted July 19, 2015 Author Posted July 19, 2015 She was drunk, so she couldn't fully consent to sex in the first place. The fact that she was "playfully" moving your hands away indicates that she probably wouldn't have had sex if she was 100% sober. However I think you should contact her text, call however you keep in touch. Keep the line of communication open, take her out on a proper date to show her you're interested in more than just sex ( if that's the case). Yup I'm definitely keeping communication open. This is technically our third date, and we've known each other for a about a month now. We talk everyday and I've taken her out for dinner and drinks during our previous meetings. I like her and I just don't want her to get the wrong idea.
candie13 Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 continue to show up, keep contact, listen to her, be consistent and she won't get the wrong idea. Behavior speaks much louder than words. You're a great guy, it'll be fine. 1
candie13 Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 set up another date - ideally something involving something more than just dinner, where you can actually interact, get to talk to each other and have a bit of a laugh/ fun.
Author difficult_decisions Posted July 21, 2015 Author Posted July 21, 2015 So last night she wanted me to stay over, but we didn't do anything. Then today after work she wanted me to come over again. We had sex. She was the one initiating it. Now I'm confused. We've seen each other for the past three days straight now. Maybe she's not looking for anymore than just sex?
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