fred123 Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 When you get to know a girl and open up it can be a bad thing. The girl can use it to laugh at you when it doesnt work out/she changes her mind and hurt you with the knowledge you gave her. For example the last girl we talked she changed her mind and i said " i thought you liked me and wanted something to happen between us" obviously i was upset/annoyed that she changes her mind. She replied "hahaha you thought i loved you haha me and my boyfriend and laughing when you write bla bla bla (cyring emoticon she posts)
babycakees Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 When you get to know a girl and open up it can be a bad thing. The girl can use it to laugh at you when it doesnt work out/she changes her mind and hurt you with the knowledge you gave her. For example the last girl we talked she changed her mind and i said " i thought you liked me and wanted something to happen between us" obviously i was upset/annoyed that she changes her mind. She replied "hahaha you thought i loved you haha me and my boyfriend and laughing when you write bla bla bla (cyring emoticon she posts) You got involved with someone who already had a boyfriend?
Author fred123 Posted July 19, 2015 Author Posted July 19, 2015 You got involved with someone who already had a boyfriend? No she has a boyfriend now, amonth after
smackie9 Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 Dude you never get all wishy washy emotional in front of a lady....makes you look like a wimpass. A guy I thought was hot, got all emotional about him growing up with out a dad on the first night we hung out....I sent him home...he was gonna get laid, but it ruined the moment totally....I wanted man not a baby.
Author fred123 Posted July 19, 2015 Author Posted July 19, 2015 Dude you never get all wishy washy emotional in front of a lady....makes you look like a wimpass. A guy I thought was hot, got all emotional about him growing up with out a dad on the first night we hung out....I sent him home...he was gonna get laid, but it ruined the moment totally....I wanted man not a baby. Thats not what happened. We stopped speaking for a month. Got back in contact via text. This was done via text. I feel hurt that she laughing at me when i thought she liked me
katiegrl Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 Thats not what happened. We stopped speaking for a month. Got back in contact via text. This was done via text. I feel hurt that she laughing at me when i thought she liked me fred, I am having trouble following your posts. What exactly did you open up about? Did you share some personal story about yourself, after which she backed off, then you contacted her and said "I thought you liked me"? And THAT is when she laughed and said she had a boyfriend? Can you clarify? 1
casey.lives Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 that person was an ass for laughing at you . you dodged a bullet. they're not all like that. keep trying
smackie9 Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 fred, I am having trouble following your posts. What exactly did you open up about? Did you share some personal story about yourself, after which she backed off, then you contacted her and said "I thought you liked me"? And THAT is when she laughed and said she had a boyfriend? Can you clarify? I agree with this^^^^ we can't give you proper advice when you don't give us proper details.
katiegrl Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 fred, I am having trouble following your posts. What exactly did you open up about? Did you share some personal story about yourself, after which she backed off, then you contacted her and said "I thought you liked me"? And THAT is when she laughed and said she had a boyfriend? Can you clarify? To add - for the future, never ever say (whine) to a girl "I thought you liked me?" Okay? That is not vulnerability..... that is neediness and insecurity, two of the biggest turn offs going. 1
babycakees Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 Thats not what happened. We stopped speaking for a month. Got back in contact via text. This was done via text. I feel hurt that she laughing at me when i thought she liked me Sounds like this girl turned out to be a biatch... You are better off without her. I understand it hurts, but she proved you would have never been able to trust her. At least a LTR didn't form and then drag on for years before you realized who she was. She's shown you her true colors. I'm sorry
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