Punky918 Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 I have a question...Im currently in a relationship of almost 8 months. I am very happy in this relationship and things are progressing great. My problem is that ive been having regrets about a past relationship. Today would of been 11 years with my ex we broke up 2 years ago and im thinking about this jerk for some reason. I dont want to get back together with him...i have so moved on from that thought, but im confused as to why i have been thinking about it or even caring that it would of been 11 years. should i talk to my current bf about this?
ConfusedInOC Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 Forget the ex, focus on the great guy you have now and NEVER look back....
morrigan Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 It sounds like you're thinking of "what might have been" had your relationship with your ex been great--a wonderful future, maybe marriage, kids by now. But it wouldn't have been idyllic to be married to a jerk, it didn't work out, and that was probably for the best. It doesn't mean that you have to forget about your past, just leave it where it is and benefit from the lessons you learned about that experience. Enjoy the relationship you have now.
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