mayfire111 Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 (edited) I want to know why men don't want to take me out and take me for granted so often. I'd like to provide you with my photo via PM. I am African American woman btw I'm no longer interested in online dating as its far more fickle than the old fashioned way. I submitted photos of me and many of the guys were interested and when I created more pictures per request there were a few who didn't like them and after several weeks stopped corresponding. I had no idea that online dating would be like this. I am African American and feel that white men are not as into black women as they claim. I mean the first photo my hair was freshly relaxed and I looked brighter and then with the second set the relaxer had worn out a bit and the lighting wasn't perfect. I thought I was still pretty. Because I'm brown my skin tone can vary and look a bit darker in some lightings. Anyway. this has defintely crushed my self esteem and I don't feel good about myself or happy. The only thing that I consistently get good feedback on is body photos of my ass. I almost feel like committing suicide Edited July 21, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Merge
Redhead14 Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 (edited) Mayfire, there is no way we could answer that question based on a picture! And men dont take advantage of you unless you allow them to. As to why they don't take you out ???? Edited July 21, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
IronZ Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 I think instead of having a bunch of people gawk at your pics and tear you down, you should tell us specifically what happened. Sometimes it's not about the looks at all but about what the situation was. Sometimes you screw up, sometimes they're just terrible people. Let us know what happened.
PogoStick Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 Go ahead and send your pics! I'm guessing she'll find a different forum though since she's just 1 post in.
William Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 Folks, I'm going to give this one a chance. First segue into photo stuff and poof, posting privileges go away. Another moderator moderated the thread starter for their offer of photos via PM and closed the thread but I added a recent post so re-read and work the dating issues. Thanks!
Vintage79 Posted July 22, 2015 Posted July 22, 2015 Also the fact that she describes weeks of emailing is a bit weird...if both parties actually wanted to meet, it would happen in a few days/week...weeks of email is crazy...I'd get bored and move on if meetings never got setup...
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