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I like this guy. We messaged on okcupid last year but I got mad at him one day because he promised to text me that evening but I saw him instead online.

So I blocked or deleted my profile, I just don't remember.

 

One year later: he liked me, I liked him. After visiting each other's profiles back and forth for one day, I sent him a message which he replied instantly. I then proposed him to meet once I get back from a trip and he wished me a good vacation.

 

On Friday again, visiting each other's profiles back and forth, like four times each from morning to evening. Last time we visited each other's profiles yesterday at 11 pm.

 

I don't know what to do, he doesnt send me a message, and he doesn't even know when I'm back from my trip. Still, I like him very much.

 

I'm scared he might not be that interested at all.

What to do??

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Message him yourself.

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Message him yourself.

 

You mean today or when I'm back from my trip?

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I like this guy. We messaged on okcupid last year but I got mad at him one day because he promised to text me that evening but I saw him instead online.

So I blocked or deleted my profile, I just don't remember.

 

One year later: he liked me, I liked him. After visiting each other's profiles back and forth for one day, I sent him a message which he replied instantly. I then proposed him to meet once I get back from a trip and he wished me a good vacation.

 

On Friday again, visiting each other's profiles back and forth, like four times each from morning to evening. Last time we visited each other's profiles yesterday at 11 pm.

 

I don't know what to do, he doesnt send me a message, and he doesn't even know when I'm back from my trip. Still, I like him very much.

 

I'm scared he might not be that interested at all.

What to do??

 

Had you met in person?

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You mean today or when I'm back from my trip?

 

Back from your trip. You should be enjoying your trip not fretting over this guy.

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Stop becoming emotionally invested in someone you haven't met.

 

And getting mad because someone you don't even know doesn't text?

 

If you think you might like him message him and organise to meet or at least talk on the phone.

 

Remember it's nothing until you meet the person. So stop worrying and enjoy the trip for now.

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