finalendeavor Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 I thought this might be an interesting thread, after reading some of the posts on the "post here instead of contacting your ex" thread; similar, but centered around more of a "you suck and I'm glad you're gone" sort of attitude. If you were to tell your ex off in one essay, what would you say? Post it. I posted mine in the previously mentioned thread, but thought I'd post it here. Helps me feel better because I'm still pissed; wish I could scream at the top of my lungs for an eternity. It helps so much to remember why your ex is such a ****head. C, why? Why did you drop me like a piece of **** after I spent $450 to come visit you? Why did you turn your back on me after driving me far away to meet all of your family? Why did you give up on me, even though I was your supposed dream girl? Why did you leave even though you thought I was "a ****ing beautiful human being"? I'm hurt, because you couldn't even legitimately end it. You ended it by saying "dunno. i'm just not feelin' it", over text. You got cold feet, and you couldn't even talk about it, you just left without another peep, only for your best friend to tell me a week later that "it's definitely over for good". You were going to live with me, and got scared, so you couldn't even honor any kind of a relationship at all, you couldn't handle the distance. Why did I get so much less of your time and effort, even though you told me your feelings for me were something you'd never felt for anyone before, even though you maintained a relationship for double the time with a girl that lived triple the distance away from you? How could you go from talking about whether or not I wanted to live in an apartment or a duplex, to ending it two days later? Maybe I'm an egotistical little narcissist, but you will regret this. You will regret it, because you will be hard pressed to find another that was so similar to you. Good luck finding another female that games with you, listens to the same music, is willing to support you and inspire you to be a better person, goes to the gym. Good luck finding someone as confident, ambitious, good in bed, and determined as I am. Good luck finding a girl that your friends and family don't hate, because god knows you know how to pick em'. I hope my "haunting olive eyes", "black mermaid hair" that you imagined your "dream girl" to have, and "most sensual body you'd ever seen" haunt you for the rest of your life. I hope you compare every girl, every future encounter to me. I hope you lay awake at night thinking about the girl you lost, that best friend you lost. Remember? You told me that I was your best friend, that you have me to thank for so many good things in your life, that you have me to thank for listening to deep, personal problems that you couldn't discuss with any of your other childhood "best friends". I hope you're happy with the fact that you impulsively dumped me like that. Have fun with those hatefully insecure, small minded girls you seem so frequently interested in. You can say and do whatever you want, but at the end of the day, I remember making you cum like a little bitch. I remember the first time, you thought I was so attractive mentally and physically, you drove an hour away because you had to have me. You literally came in thirty seconds, and then a second time in another thirty seconds, no time in between. I remember the look of helplessness in your eyes when I was played footsies with you under the table, wearing my black stiletto heels and my short little black dress. The way you grumbled, "please stop", like you couldn't handle it. Have a nice life, you ****ing *******. 3
Satu Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 "Go with God, but go now and go far, never to return." 2
ManyDissapoint Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 Hello H. I'm hotter than you now. But undoubtedly not happier. Die in a fire for your many lies.
OldSoul86 Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 I thought this might be an interesting thread, after reading some of the posts on the "post here instead of contacting your ex" thread; similar, but centered around more of a "you suck and I'm glad you're gone" sort of attitude. If you were to tell your ex off in one essay, what would you say? Post it. I posted mine in the previously mentioned thread, but thought I'd post it here. Helps me feel better because I'm still pissed; wish I could scream at the top of my lungs for an eternity. It helps so much to remember why your ex is such a ****head. C, why? Why did you drop me like a piece of **** after I spent $450 to come visit you? Why did you turn your back on me after driving me far away to meet all of your family? Why did you give up on me, even though I was your supposed dream girl? Why did you leave even though you thought I was "a ****ing beautiful human being"? I'm hurt, because you couldn't even legitimately end it. You ended it by saying "dunno. i'm just not feelin' it", over text. You got cold feet, and you couldn't even talk about it, you just left without another peep, only for your best friend to tell me a week later that "it's definitely over for good". You were going to live with me, and got scared, so you couldn't even honor any kind of a relationship at all, you couldn't handle the distance. Why did I get so much less of your time and effort, even though you told me your feelings for me were something you'd never felt for anyone before, even though you maintained a relationship for double the time with a girl that lived triple the distance away from you? How could you go from talking about whether or not I wanted to live in an apartment or a duplex, to ending it two days later? Maybe I'm an egotistical little narcissist, but you will regret this. You will regret it, because you will be hard pressed to find another that was so similar to you. Good luck finding another female that games with you, listens to the same music, is willing to support you and inspire you to be a better person, goes to the gym. Good luck finding someone as confident, ambitious, good in bed, and determined as I am. Good luck finding a girl that your friends and family don't hate, because god knows you know how to pick em'. I hope my "haunting olive eyes", "black mermaid hair" that you imagined your "dream girl" to have, and "most sensual body you'd ever seen" haunt you for the rest of your life. I hope you compare every girl, every future encounter to me. I hope you lay awake at night thinking about the girl you lost, that best friend you lost. Remember? You told me that I was your best friend, that you have me to thank for so many good things in your life, that you have me to thank for listening to deep, personal problems that you couldn't discuss with any of your other childhood "best friends". I hope you're happy with the fact that you impulsively dumped me like that. Have fun with those hatefully insecure, small minded girls you seem so frequently interested in. You can say and do whatever you want, but at the end of the day, I remember making you cum like a little bitch. I remember the first time, you thought I was so attractive mentally and physically, you drove an hour away because you had to have me. You literally came in thirty seconds, and then a second time in another thirty seconds, no time in between. I remember the look of helplessness in your eyes when I was played footsies with you under the table, wearing my black stiletto heels and my short little black dress. The way you grumbled, "please stop", like you couldn't handle it. Have a nice life, you ****ing *******. Yikes, there's a lot of hostility in this post. Getting angry at a breakup is healthy, but please do not go overboard with it. No one is worth that amount of negative energy. Just imagine what you could do if you put all of that excess energy into something more positive! Just some food for thought - there is such a thing as unproductive anger.
Satu Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 Yikes, there's a lot of hostility in this post. Getting angry at a breakup is healthy, but please do not go overboard with it. No one is worth that amount of *negative energy. Just imagine what you could do if you put all of that excess energy into something more positive! Just some food for thought - there is such a thing as unproductive anger. There is no such thing as 'negative energy.' Energy is just energy, and neither negative nor positive.
darkbloom Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 Hey A, I hope your alcoholism is treating you well. Your only best friends have always been Jack and Jim. I mourn for the person I thought you were. Not the person you have become. No one would mourn for that insecure, lying, and manipulative person. I am still infinitely hotter than you and still happier. I will never reach out to you. I think you know that for sure by now. Xoxoxoxo, db
OldSoul86 Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 There is no such thing as 'negative energy.' Energy is just energy, and neither negative nor positive. Fair enough, but that is a lot of hostility towards someone who is no longer a part of your life!
Jonp219 Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 There is no such thing as 'negative energy.' Energy is just energy, and neither negative nor positive. Satu is that because we label energy based on how we perceive it? Due to the fact that only WE can control how we react towards other peoples words and actions?
OldSoul86 Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 Satu is that because we label energy based on how we perceive it? Due to the fact that only WE can control how we react towards other peoples words and actions? I definitely think you're on to something Jon. The world around us is very much a product of our perceptions, and I think energy is not an exception to the rule.
guest569 Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 Hey ex or whatever, You're not even worth an essay. Sincerely, Smiley1 Right now i feel sorry for him. I don't think he meant to hurt me (at times i think it was deliberate to try to get me to dump him, to save him the trouble and guilt of dumping me ) but I think he wanted something real and didn't find that with me, despite our best efforts. i doubt he will find it with others. I hope he does though. Dear OP, I bet you will get to a stage where your essay is similar to mine. I have occasional feelings of anger (or a bit peeved rather) toward him but i care a lot less about all that stuff now. Smiley1
aloneinaz Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 I've never seen any value in "telling off" an ex. It only demonstrates you still care and are not over it. Do you want to truly feel better about it? Vanish from their lives and NEVER contact them nor reply to them again. Silence speaks volumes! 3
kenmore Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 I agree with aloneinAz and I'm doing just that, but I know that felt good finalendeavor! Just let it out! Okay, I'll play just because I have had too much free time on my hands today and thought too much about her against my own will. J - It took me awhile but I have finally learned how to accept the fact that I never did mean anything to you, so I didn't lose anything. I thought I had lost a love but it wasn't like that. At first all I could ask myself was how you could just walk away from me as if I was nothing more than a signpost, but after much reflection, I know it made you happier. It was easy because you didn't have any feelings for me and it made your life simpler. I also know, though, that deep inside it really wasn't like that, that's just what you thought. As time goes by, I know you will compare other men to me and see flaws in them. You will date the guy with money and charm who happens to be a wife beater. You will date the guy with money who is really sweet but bores you to death. You will date guys who just disgust you. You will date the guy that you love but he couldn't care less. It will keep you from ever being happy with anyone else again, and while I don't really wish you ill, it does make me glad to know that. Meanwhile, I spent my love. Dumping it was one of the most painful things in my life, but it's gone now. You will always remain in doubt whether you made the right decision, I had no choice so I moved on. I see clearly now how much you lied to me, manipulated me and used me to get what you needed just to drop me as per your original plan. What you didn't plan was that you would actually love me and now your heart has a gaping hole. Just remember who caused it, and there will never be any chance to fix it because that ship has sailed. Ken
candie13 Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 (edited) dear ex, things turned exactly how they were supposed to turn out. I know exactly what I want and I know exactly why our RS didn't work out. I bet you cannot say the same. I wish that the next woman you meet will have that thing that you seek. I doubt it, but I do hope you meet her. You will realize, then, that your journey is not over. You are 38 and are a wonderer. No woman or child or family will be able to pin you down, because you're not looking for someone, you're only trying to get away from yourself. I do hope you find it in yourself to forgive yourself and forgive whomever hurt you, digest it and move the hell on with your life. Until then... you're stuck. I know this is the first break up where you were left because you were not delivering up to the promises you've made. I hope you learn from it. I doubt I managed to get through to you or made you reflect. Too scared for that, too scared to stay single, off to the next gf, I am sure. stay well, looks like you need the rest of your life to figure it out. God has a funny sense of humour, to have given you so much brain yet make you this emotionally thick. I do hope you brace yourself, plunge inside, do the hard work and stop grieving. your own battles to fight. I don't think you realize you are not ready. I don't think you realize that are making a road filled with victims, as you pass along in women's lives. And the really funny and unfair aspect is - not all of the women. Only those you actually care about you. Only to those who actually loved you. those selfish, interested in only taking stuff from you, those are protected from your spell. stay well. stay away. may God watch over you and over all those people you are getting together with. Edited July 19, 2015 by candie13
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