finalendeavor Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 This is an odd question, but I'm curious. I started a thread a while ago on my entire breakup situation, called "another girl with ex problems", for those of you who are curious on the back story. Long story short, guy is getting ready to move in with me, dumps me over text/ FB, never hear from him again. It's been 3 weeks NC. It was an LDR. My question is this; why are all of his friends still trying to talk to me and hang around in my life? It's all of his best guy friends, and it's the weirdest **** I've ever seen. Am I reading into it? Are there ulterior motives? They're all in their early twenties, if that's relevant at all.
d0nnivain Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 They may like you better & want to dump him for you. Who knows why they are still being friendly. If you want nothing to do with them, that's fine. Just fade away. If you like them, & you don't have to deal with the EX to do so, be friends with them.
Author finalendeavor Posted July 17, 2015 Author Posted July 17, 2015 I'm 100% indifferent either way, I just don't understand what the motivation is. The friends and I weren't close, they're not trying to bed me because they all live far away, I don't think they're trying to do reconnaissance for the ex because of how I was dumped. There's really no reason for them to still be contacting me. People are so weird.
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