Author Suit_up Posted July 21, 2015 Author Share Posted July 21, 2015 "So we have been dating for about a month and a half now. She texts me every day. Each day she always asks me how my day is, tells me about hers." She texts you so much because it feels good to have someone to talk to. That way you don't feel lonely and you don't dwell on the break up. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with you. You have to judge her based on how she acts when you two are together. That's when you see how she really feels about you. Texts are just texts. She might very well be into you. But at the same time she's not over her break up. The worst thing you can do right now is rush things. That will only scare her away. Even if she likes you. So try to enjoy things and not think about the future. The funny thing is, i've tried not to do that a bit, even though it seems like great advice, because if i was observing this as a third party i would say she behaves like someone who has strong feelings. In person she is passionate, affectionate, and loving. She does things that go far beyond FWB. I should mention, when we first started sleeping together i was seriously ill as my best friend died recently. Physically i just couldn't have sex on a few occasions she wanted to. I told her that it was not her, that i just needed a bit of time. Her response was "just relax, theres no pressure. I know it must have been hard. We will have plenty of fun together." I guess the problem is, I want to read something here that i think "yep, that's absolutely right." I am a pessimistic guy unfortunately, and I try to find the holes first, but there are things going on that don't add up, that i cannot reconcile with one another. Link to post Share on other sites
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