Apaige Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 I know this is something I should do, but I can't...it's been two years of my life that I've wasted with. I love him and I think he loves me. But something always shifts in the summer months. His attention toward me is not the same, probably bc someone else has his attention. I know this, not stupid...so why can't I walk away? Please help, I really need suggestions!!
Toodaloo Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 One day you will. One day you will have had enough. Something will tip you over the edge. Question is that you already KNOW. So why wait and waste more time? Get off your arse and quit wasting your life. 1
Ariess10 Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 "Sometime, it's not holding on that makes you strong, it's letting go" 1
Arieswoman Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 Apaige, You really haven't said much about your situation so it's difficult for anyone to help you. Have you tackled him about why his attention seems to wane in the summer months? Maybe that should be the starting place?
Clarence_Boddicker Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 For me, when I came to the awful realization that my lover no longer really loved me & was only using me, I had no option but to leave. Due to some bad extenuating circumstances I felt like I couldn't break up with her, even though I was 100% sure she was physically cheating on me. I had an opportunity to get far away from her & I took it. I basically ran as far away from her as possible while we were still "together". I drove across the country & ended up permanently moving there. Because of some stupid promises I made beforehand I felt like crap for running away like that, but it was 100% necessary for my personal well being. Leaving her was one of the hardest things I have ever done because I was so in love with her, but it was my only option.
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