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There's a bike shop in my neighborhood that I've visited a couple times, and I am hugely attracted to the owner of the store. Our interactions have been of the usual type between patron/store owner...maybe mildly flirtatious but nothing crazy. I thought I saw a spark in his eyes, but who the hell knows.

 

Other than making up false reasons to visit the store again, which could get creepy (and expensive - his store's not cheap!), I don't know how or if to follow through with this.

 

He has a personal email address posted on his store's website, but contacting him through that seems to aggressive to me. Plus I'm sure he gets dozens of people in and out of his store each week, and I have no legit reason to believe I "stood out" in his mind. Also, he's a seriously handsome dude so I'm sure he gets a lot of females flirting with him.

 

Any ideas?

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he's a seriously handsome dude so I'm sure he gets a lot of females flirting with him.

 

Good looking people rarely get asked out... People are too afraid because they are good looking.

 

My advice is be confident in who you. Look about for something you think he may enjoy going to, go in, tell him that you have tickets and would he like to go with you. He may say yes, he may say no... Thats the dating game but at least you will not be turning yourself inside out everytime you go in or wasting your money on un-needed trips!!!

 

If he says no carry on being friendly and flirty. Thats what really cool ladies do.

 

Good luck!

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