Quokka Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 This story can be very lengthy because it's been over the course 3 years but I'll shorten it for the sake of your time putting out only the key factors. Basically I am a guy who is 19 I like this girl who is one year older than me. She likes me too. She has told me this several times. Problem is she has a girlfriend. Yes a girlfriend not a boyfriend. Confusing I know. She isn't full lesbian because we've spent nights together if you know what I mean. She just connects with this other chick because they've been together for about 4 years. Every once in awhile she'll get these spurts where she doesn't want to be with this girl so she'll run off and go party and usually we end up getting together each time. Right now she's still with this girl and I know I shouldn't even be trying to reconnect with her but hear me out. I REALLY like this girl. Like I've never felt so connected to someone when we're together. We hit it off really well. I'm really stuck on her. She's not the type to cheat because we only hook up when she's single. And I don't really care if I'm her so called rebound. I just don't give a **** about that. No it doesn't make me happy knowing that but I really like her and even if it's just a couple nights with each other, it makes me feel on top of the world for just a couple days... I just wanna know how I can get myself out of this rebound **** and make her my girlfriend. Any advice is much appreciated Thanks.
smackie9 Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 Here read this thread....might give you some insight....read the last 3 paragraphs. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/538334-relationship-have-feelings-someone-else 1
Author Quokka Posted July 17, 2015 Author Posted July 17, 2015 Here read this thread....might give you some insight....read the last 3 paragraphs. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/538334-relationship-have-feelings-someone-else Damn that hits hard. If only the girl I'm talking about felt this way about me. I mean she could but who the hell knows
HugoMoreno Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 To make her your girlfriend you're going to have to solve her needs better than her girlfriend Ask her why she likes her girlfriend (ask "why" like 6 or 7 times to get to the root of the real answer) And figure how you can solve that answer better than the gf she has
Author Quokka Posted July 17, 2015 Author Posted July 17, 2015 To make her your girlfriend you're going to have to solve her needs better than her girlfriend Ask her why she likes her girlfriend (ask "why" like 6 or 7 times to get to the root of the real answer) And figure how you can solve that answer better than the gf she has I'll try this but we haven't talked in so long so it would be odd for me to just come out of the blue like that. I've been real passive with her.
Author Quokka Posted July 18, 2015 Author Posted July 18, 2015 I'll try this but we haven't talked in so long so it would be odd for me to just come out of the blue like that. I've been real passive with her. Still need advice
Author Quokka Posted July 18, 2015 Author Posted July 18, 2015 To make her your girlfriend you're going to have to solve her needs better than her girlfriend Ask her why she likes her girlfriend (ask "why" like 6 or 7 times to get to the root of the real answer) And figure how you can solve that answer better than the gf she has Whats up lol
smackie9 Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 Still need advice Forget her and find someone who is available. You shouldn't have to work hard to get a GF. If you do, then it's not likely to happen.
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