rockyrockerson Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 (edited) I'm not very good at dating or knowing how to handle rejecting someone. Problem: I went on a first date with a guy from an online dating site last night. It went fairly well. He made me laugh, which was nice. He texts me at 8:30 this morning. I wait an hour or two trying to convey that this isn't what I want. He continues to text all day although he does leave time in between texts. I respond intermittently. It's not even 5:00 and he's asked for a second date FOR TOMORROW! I'm not looking for a serious relationship (just as my profile states explicitly). I'm also extremely busy (as my profile states explicitly). Should I just let him down now? I was all for a second date maybe next week to see where things went, but I'm a little worried by his behavior today. Thoughts? Advice? Thanks in advance! PS No, I'm not one of those women who would be complaining if he didn't call or text within a day or two. I prefer that. Edited to add: he's also removed all of his photos from the OLD website. Edited July 16, 2015 by rockyrockerson
GooseChaser Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 (edited) Tell him you have plans for tomorrow but are free next week? It would at least slow things a bit. You might also want to say something to him when there's a chance to make sure you're both on the same page as far as how serious things are. Edited July 16, 2015 by GooseChaser
toml Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 I'm not very good at dating or knowing how to handle rejecting someone. Problem: I went on a first date with a guy from an online dating site last night. It went fairly well. He made me laugh, which was nice. He texts me at 8:30 this morning. I wait an hour or two trying to convey that this isn't what I want. He continues to text all day although he does leave time in between texts. I respond intermittently. It's not even 5:00 and he's asked for a second date FOR TOMORROW! I'm not looking for a serious relationship (just as my profile states explicitly). I'm also extremely busy (as my profile states explicitly). Should I just let him down now? I was all for a second date maybe next week to see where things went, but I'm a little worried by his behavior today. Thoughts? Advice? Thanks in advance! PS No, I'm not one of those women who would be complaining if he didn't call or text within a day or two. I prefer that. Edited to add: he's also removed all of his photos from the OLD website. He texts all day but you reply to all of them? I used to message a girl 100 times a day but she was the same and used to reply all the time. Im guessing ur replying just to be polite?
Zippy2000 Posted July 17, 2015 Posted July 17, 2015 Wait! You`re on a dating site but yet not looking for a relationship. You say in your profile you are busy thus have no time to date, but you dont want a relationship anyway. You`re a time waster! Get off the dating site so he can find a person that deserves him! Why dont you go an find a penpal so he can date. Its unfair for him.
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