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I think I'm right in between the depression and anger stage

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I think I'm right in between the depression and anger stage

 

Everyone has different stages in their break-up. For example, you may be at the depression stage one day, then anger stage, and then suddenly fall back to the denial stage. You just need to let things run their course, and you will get over it eventually.

 

For myself, it took me 10 months to get over a 2.5 years relationship. I was all over the place. For 1-2 weeks I would feel like I'm over her, then the next week I would start having false hope, and then I would be depressed for the week after that. So there really isn't any point keeping track on which stage you are at.

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Everyone has different stages in their break-up. For example, you may be at the depression stage one day, then anger stage, and then suddenly fall back to the denial stage. You just need to let things run their course, and you will get over it eventually.

 

For myself, it took me 10 months to get over a 2.5 years relationship. I was all over the place. For 1-2 weeks I would feel like I'm over her, then the next week I would start having false hope, and then I would be depressed for the week after that. So there really isn't any point keeping track on which stage you are at.

 

10 months? Ugh.

 

I'm 4 months NC and 5 month post BU after a 4 year relationship. **** is not easy, I still feel I have a microscopic dab of false hope left in me. It sucks.

 

But yeah OP, the stages are not in numerical order. They can vary from week to week, day to day, hour to hour. This morning I was depressed and now i'm just angry.

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If I can't even handle a lousy guy who never was even mine to begin with I will never survive a divorce. How do I trust anyone again?

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If I can't even handle a lousy guy who never was even mine to begin with I will never survive a divorce. How do I trust anyone again?

 

You will , when you heal completely you'll meet someone that it just come natural ... Don't let someone in your past ruin your future .. Don't give them that much power

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