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cheated reconciled then cheated again 4 yrs later


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Lol but I honestly am seriously attracted to this new woman we have been seeing each other for past 4 days and can't stop talking all day and night. We both told each other our feelings are growing fast and I honestly am over my ex and would never want to be with her. I just want to be with this new woman she is all I ever think about. I never think about my ex my mind is always in this new woman I swear she's sooooo beautiful it's amazing. I really don't feel like I need counseling and am doing great. My ex found out about my new woman and she text me saying she can't believes I care more about this new woman than her and I just met this woman but I was with her for 10 years and have two kids together...

I just told her I thought you were over me... That's when my ex told me it hurts to know I apparently like this new woman so much more than her... I just ignored her and then she finally told me that she is happy for me and she said good luck so all I said back was thanks.

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Just an update:

 

Me and the new woman are going strong. Ex wife found out I wined and dined her and bought her a Michael kors purse and now my ex wife is telling me she's hurt by it because I am showing I care more about my new woman than her.

 

Me and the new woman can't stop talking or seeing each other I'm extremely attracted to her and she's way better than my ex.

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Me and this new woman are officially together. She's is way prettier and mature than my ex. So to all of those people who think their life sucks because they are going through a divorce, think again... You will find someone better

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So glad to hear you're already doing better! :) And just ignore the bickering of your ex, her ego just took a major blow that you didn't end up alone and miserable like she'd hoped. ;)

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Me and this new woman are officially together. She's is way prettier and mature than my ex. So to all of those people who think their life sucks because they are going through a divorce, think again... You will find someone better

I have followed your story and read all your posts since your first thread, you EX is obviously a mess it is so sad that she probably doesn't know what to do about it. she is a victim of her environment, she is insecure too that's why all her first reactions were defensive. I gals that you are moving on with the new lady but be warned that is may not be the end with your EX. she had put you on the shelve while having multiple adventures and expecting you to be there and part of it it was your fault because you accepted being in the shelve begging for her back she got used to it. so it escalated even when she got "serious" with Brandon she was still expecting you to be there. she was thinking that you would help paying her bills take care of the kids while she is with him that what explains her reaction because for the first time were not on the shelve waiting for her and something when you went NC she was furious making all kind of excuses to talk to you. now after she knows about you seeing someone else she realized that you vacated the shelve she put you on for good. you have freed yourself that's good. however keep in mind she is not going anywhere out of your life yet i can guaranty it. her life will always be a mess, and just of a matter of time before her honey moon with Brander ends, this is assuming that this guy is there for long term which I doubt I think he is only there for the booty and once he is fed up he will dump her, unless she works on herself with professional psychiatrist she will always be a mess. then she will come back hunting for you. I really wish the honey moon with Brandon last longer till the divorce is completely over. otherwise she will make it like hell.

Take a good care of those kids, they need all the support. good luck

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Ty for the meaningful response it's very much appreciated ??

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Me and this new woman are officially together. She's is way prettier and mature than my ex. So to all of those people who think their life sucks because they are going through a divorce, think again... You will find someone better

 

Your ex is jealous, but for someone who disrespected you so much, she has quite a nerve.

 

If she wants to know what hurt is...it's knowing your wife and mother of your kids let other men inside her. So she can just shut her mouth about being hurt and stop acting like a victim.

 

She thought you'd take her cheating like a doormat. Don't ever get sucked in by her again. You gave her her a second chance and she blew it.

 

I don't think it's too much to expect your wife to be faithful now is it. Why does she think you should accept her crap.

 

Hope your new relationship keeps going well.

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Good for you buddy!!!

 

Unbelievable!!! She has been cheating on your with different men and she is jealous!!!

 

Tel;l her she'll have to learn to live with it.. And then stop talking to her any more than you have to for finances or kids.

 

Set her free to bang any one she wants to and smile at her like she did to you.

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Everything is going really well with the new woman she is so sweet to me. I kind of messed up and went over to the Ex's house when my kids were with her to see if the OM was there in which he was. In our divorce it says he cannot be there after 8pm with the kids, and I have video footage of him being there and can take my ex to court so she will get fined or possibly put in jail. My current wife wants me to leave it a lone and tells me that by my caring what she is doing still means I have not moved on. She insist I let her live her life and so we can live ours. Our mediation date is early September, we are supposed to mediate on the final bit of things so the divorce can be final as long as the ex doesn't have any tricks up her sleeve... just an update.

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Everything is going really well with the new woman she is so sweet to me. I kind of messed up and went over to the Ex's house when my kids were with her to see if the OM was there in which he was. In our divorce it says he cannot be there after 8pm with the kids, and I have video footage of him being there and can take my ex to court so she will get fined or possibly put in jail. My current wife wants me to leave it a lone and tells me that by my caring what she is doing still means I have not moved on. She insist I let her live her life and so we can live ours. Our mediation date is early September, we are supposed to mediate on the final bit of things so the divorce can be final as long as the ex doesn't have any tricks up her sleeve... just an update.

good for you, make sure your lawyer sees that video

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I meant current wife but meant current girlfriend whoops. Well my current girlfriend would not like me to pursue anything against my ex because she believes it means I still have feelings for my ex. She also does not want any drama and tells me if I do this then it will also cut out time for us to be together meaning she wont be able to come over after 8 either.

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I meant current wife but meant current girlfriend whoops. Well my current girlfriend would not like me to pursue anything against my ex because she believes it means I still have feelings for my ex. She also does not want any drama and tells me if I do this then it will also cut out time for us to be together meaning she wont be able to come over after 8 either.

It is important that you current GF feels comfortable too do not forget about her, be always honest so she will feel secure, tell her that would have to share the video with your lawyer to protect yourself and you kids interest

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