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Disgusting behavior you have seen by MM either on program or life!

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I wanted to start this thread because I am doing really well in the aftermath of my affair and want to continue on this road. I feel so free!!!! Like the Titanic scene with Leonardo, "I am Queen of the World!"

 

 

All I can think of is negative thoughts if MM pops in the mind and it helps thinking like this.

 

 

The worst case of a MM cheater that I have watched lately was an ordained minister and head of his church who in many letters to the OW, no it was a other man! He wrote that his wife was disgusting and fat, unhealthy and had Diabetes 2, and he was praying for her to die soon and he was getting impatient! He wrote so much nasty mean stuff. It was incredible and unbelievable. I think he is in jail for murdering her or is awaiting trial.

 

 

These men are unbelievably all about the self and think of no one else.

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Oh and another negative but feel good thought when I think of him finding another AP because it is inevitable is not jealousy, but, "Please make her insane," Please make her insane," Please make her insane." :laugh::laugh::laugh:

 

 

I mental movie slashing tires, slipping into his house, banging on the front door, following him everywhere...she will make his life a never ending nightmare...love it!

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oh boy oh boy

disgusting

it is so hard for us women to really believe and understand how despicable some men can be.

its a pity for the other decent ones

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Oh and another negative but feel good thought when I think of him finding another AP because it is inevitable is not jealousy, but, "Please make her insane," Please make her insane," Please make her insane." :laugh::laugh::laugh:

 

 

I mental movie slashing tires, slipping into his house, banging on the front door, following him everywhere...she will make his life a never ending nightmare...love it!

 

wouldn it be better if he was the one going wazoo?

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it is so hard for us women to really believe and understand how despicable some men can be.

 

Just curious, last time I checked it took two people to have an affair, so are you saying men are despicable and the ladies climbing into the sack with them knowing they are married are truly "angels" and victims.

 

Unless it is rape, women make the FINAL decision on whether a PA occurs. you have the right to say no anytime. And all of this is mens fault.

 

Not buying the above statement.

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wouldn it be better if he was the one going wazoo?

 

No, he is a nerve wrecked type and this would be fun! It could happen if he chooses one that really falls for him and has less than his fancy lifestyle. I have my own so I hope he goes for one that is very impressionable and really thinks they hit the jack pot! You add some insanity and co dependent issues, bam, I will have my wish.

 

 

I know this is terrible of me, but I cannot help it at this time.:) These thoughts will soon pass.

 

 

But yes he would be going wazoo over this.

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Oh and another negative but feel good thought when I think of him finding another AP because it is inevitable is not jealousy, but, "Please make her insane," Please make her insane," Please make her insane." :laugh::laugh::laugh:

 

 

I mental movie slashing tires, slipping into his house, banging on the front door, following him everywhere...she will make his life a never ending nightmare...love it!

 

As amusing as all that might seem, it wouldn't be to the BS if some crazy lunatic was slipping into her house. Have you seen Fatal Attraction? If I was his wife, I would have shot him after the OW for putting me through all that.

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it is so hard for us women to really believe and understand how despicable some men can be.

 

Just curious, last time I checked it took two people to have an affair, so are you saying men are despicable and the ladies climbing into the sack with them knowing they are married are truly "angels" and victims.

 

Unless it is rape, women make the FINAL decision on whether a PA occurs. you have the right to say no anytime. And all of this is mens fault.

 

Not buying the above statement.

 

 

This is a thread for APs thoughts on behavior of MM not a thread on an APs thoughts on themselves, remorse, or sins.

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As amusing as all that might seem, it wouldn't be to the BS if some crazy lunatic was slipping into her house. Have you seen Fatal Attraction? If I was his wife, I would have shot him after the OW for putting me through all that.

 

 

Yes, you might. :D Of course it is mental imagery, it does not have to be malicious or hurtful, but the biggest headache he has ever imagined.

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Yes, you might. :D Of course it is mental imagery, it does not have to be malicious or hurtful, but the biggest headache he has ever imagined.

 

This isn't healthy.

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Back to the topic- for me, the most disgusting things I have read on here are the MM who say they can not leave their marriage for religious reasons-not sure why that bugs the crap out of me, but it does-

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This isn't healthy.

 

 

I do not know if it is healthy or not but it helps me. I have not cared one bit if he will contact and I feel okay for once in a long long while!! I do hope when he finds another AP, that she is crazy and give him a huge mental jog...no run!

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Back to the topic- for me, the most disgusting things I have read on here are the MM who say they can not leave their marriage for religious reasons-not sure why that bugs the crap out of me, but it does-

 

:laugh: Yes they do tend to split themselves into 2 different men. One religious and the other is.... I do not know, you tell me?! :laugh:

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And I have to add the going crazy has NOTHING to do with violence (I am not sick minded) but indeed trouble...largest headache. Maybe it will change him around and he would do the steps to improve his life and his BS. A wake up call.

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The other- well, probably the real him- the person that can use religion as an excuse for whatever makes him happy- I feel like people that can say that with a straight face to someone they are having an affair with is a selfish idiot- there may be some valid reasons not to leave a marriage, but if you are cheating, religion is not one of them- and FTR- I am not overly religious so its not the whole sinner thing, its the hypocrite thing that drives me mad-

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Probably the worst one is the BTK killer. Married family man, church deacon or some such. He had a thing for binding, raping, torturing and killing OW.

 

I don't think it gets much worse than that.

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Probably the worst one is the BTK killer. Married family man, church deacon or some such. He had a thing for binding, raping, torturing and killing OW.

 

I don't think it gets much worse than that.

 

 

What about Jeffrey McDonald! The Army doctor. He killed his wife and 3 small children, one unborn but fully developed and blamed it on hippies. He had many OW! Women were still in line to date him after that. Crazy stuff.

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The other- well, probably the real him- the person that can use religion as an excuse for whatever makes him happy- I feel like people that can say that with a straight face to someone they are having an affair with is a selfish idiot- there may be some valid reasons not to leave a marriage, but if you are cheating, religion is not one of them- and FTR- I am not overly religious so its not the whole sinner thing, its the hypocrite thing that drives me mad-

 

This has always been odd to me too. They pick the sins that are ok to commit. I had a boyfriend like this in college. He was Catholic, so he tried to convince me we couldn't use condoms since he didn't believe in birth control. But the pre-marital sex part was A-OK.

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What about Jeffrey McDonald! The Army doctor. He killed his wife and 3 small children, one unborn but fully developed and blamed it on hippies. He had many OW! Women were still in line to date him after that. Crazy stuff.

 

And Scott Peterson. Kills his wife and unborn child so his mistress Amber didn't find out he was married with a child on the way.

 

I mean, damn, haven't you ever heard of DIVORCE?

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And Scott Peterson. Kills his wife and unborn child so his mistress Amber didn't find out he was married with a child on the way.

 

I mean, damn, haven't you ever heard of DIVORCE?

 

 

I know what you mean. I believe J. McDonald is of greater evil because he stabbed his children and wife 40-50 times each. He then went onto a late night talk show a few months later! and bragged and laughed at his single man status and all his adoring lady fans.

 

 

Sick sick sick.

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The betrayed spouse's father watched that late night show and I think it was game on for cat and mouse with the father in law to make sure he was punished. Could you think pissed off?

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I wanted to start this thread because I am doing really well in the aftermath of my affair and want to continue on this road. I feel so free!!!! Like the Titanic scene with Leonardo, "I am Queen of the World!"

 

 

All I can think of is negative thoughts if MM pops in the mind and it helps thinking like this.

 

 

The worst case of a MM cheater that I have watched lately was an ordained minister and head of his church who in many letters to the OW, no it was a other man! He wrote that his wife was disgusting and fat, unhealthy and had Diabetes 2, and he was praying for her to die soon and he was getting impatient! He wrote so much nasty mean stuff. It was incredible and unbelievable. I think he is in jail for murdering her or is awaiting trial.

 

 

These men are unbelievably all about the self and think of no one else.

My BF can tell some real horror stories ....

 

oh boy oh boy

disgusting

it is so hard for us women to really believe and understand how despicable some men can be.

its a pity for the other decent ones

....and they just as often or even moreso involve horrors committed by women.

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I've seen some pretty messed up stuff living on an army base, which is what brought me to ls to begin with. The worst I have personally seen is a WH who planned to have a baby with his wife of five years, successfully impregnated her, got deployed, and proceeded to sleep around. The BW gave birth without him there (deployment ended too close to the due date for him to get leave) and when he did get back he was distant with both his BW and newborn. Baby had a lot of serious gastrointestinal issues and seemed to be a naturally high needs infant in the first place. Lots of medical specialists involved. WH refused to help the BW, told her it was all her fault and she needed to "deal with it." BW went back to her homestate 9 months in to get some support and once she was well rested enough to put 2 and 2 together found out about the affairs. He had been sleeping with other women since the deployment. All those times he said he was going to the gym and leaving her home with the baby he was really going to hotels. He even faked a few staff duty details and field exercises. Less than a month after the BW went home one of the OW moved into the home.

 

What really blows my mind about this slimeball? The first time I met him he went on a tirade about how lazy and worthless SAHMs are. Apparently taking care of kids isn't "work." But clearly it was too much work for him to handle! He was too busy banging ow to help raise his firstborn.

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Back to the topic- for me, the most disgusting things I have read on here are the MM who say they can not leave their marriage for religious reasons-not sure why that bugs the crap out of me, but it does-

 

My guy was a Catholic deacon and it didn't stop him!!! ?

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