pjm123 Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 I mean I know this chick likes me but obviously shes not in love with me and I dont think its staying thats way obviously because I digging myself a hole persay when I said I like her and I am seeing her every week and I know its predictable and boring. Also saying we dont need to have sex every time so that basically was sound telling me UH OH Unlock her legs said basically show her sides you have not showed her before you need to make and break patterns basically see her few weeks then following week just say im gonna see my friends also cancel plans at last minute. Also sparingly show a cold side to her... So whats does this mean???? Do I be an ******* or what? Do I tell her its my way or the highway tell her im a man im the leader you submit i lead relationship? Also how often do you do the changing plans on her and unpredictable and be cold and do the break pattern?? Thanks in advance
casey.lives Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 ask an expert player dude.. skills are learnt and mastered
fitnessfan365 Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 No offense, but it sounds like you're just parroting stuff that you've read and you have no actual experience whatsoever. My advice? Just try to be yourself and forget all the PUA nonsense. 4
Toodaloo Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 (edited) Mate. You need to spice it up in the old brain department rather than the trouser department! You see her each week on the same day and do the same thing... Dull. Get inventive. Get a life outside dating so you can talk about new things. Plan things to do that are not just sitting around all the time... Engage her brain... Edited July 16, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
ExpatInItaly Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 I mean I know this chick likes me but obviously shes not in love with me and I dont think its staying thats way obviously because I digging myself a hole persay when I said I like her and I am seeing her every week and I know its predictable and boring. Also saying we dont need to have sex every time so that basically was sound telling me UH OH Unlock her legs said basically show her sides you have not showed her before you need to make and break patterns basically see her few weeks then following week just say im gonna see my friends also cancel plans at last minute. Also sparingly show a cold side to her... So whats does this mean???? Do I be an ******* or what? Do I tell her its my way or the highway tell her im a man im the leader you submit i lead relationship? Also how often do you do the changing plans on her and unpredictable and be cold and do the break pattern?? Thanks in advance Yes, this is an excellent plan and sure to work exactly the way you want it. Please tell her this and report back. Oh, very important, almost forgot - do this only if what you desire is a punch in the teeth. And more singledom. 3
Lois_Griffin Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 (edited) Based on the replies, I'm assuming the OP is wanting more sex. Just from the sounds of it, he's completely inexperienced and has no clue how to interact with women (much less please them) on an adult level. That usually equates to bad sex - for her, not him. Edited July 16, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 1
elaine567 Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 (edited) I mean I know this chick likes me but obviously shes not in love with me and I dont think its staying thats way obviously because I digging myself a hole persay when I said I like her and I am seeing her every week and I know its predictable and boring. Also saying we dont need to have sex every time so that basically was sound telling me UH OH Unlock her legs said basically show her sides you have not showed her before you need to make and break patterns basically see her few weeks then following week just say im gonna see my friends also cancel plans at last minute. Also sparingly show a cold side to her... So whats does this mean???? Do I be an ******* or what? Do I tell her its my way or the highway tell her im a man im the leader you submit i lead relationship? Also how often do you do the changing plans on her and unpredictable and be cold and do the break pattern?? Thanks in advance I think what you re saying though perhaps spending time improving your language skills may be time better spent, is that you like this girl but you do not think she is in love with you and that your predictable/boring behaviour is not making her like you more. She told you she doesn't want to have sex every time she sees you either so you suspect she is going to dump you. Edited July 16, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Commercial link redacted 1
elaine567 Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 Exactly so can u guys help OK forget about going cold, or acting like some dictator or cancelling on her at the last minute, as all that stuff will confirm to her that you do not like her and that all you wanted was the sex. I am not suggesting you roll over like a wounded puppy either. As Toodaloo says engage her brain, women like interesting men and they love doing interesting new things. If you are the guy who shows up, eats the stuff out of her fridge, humps her, watches TV, then shuffles off home, that is NOT interesting. What do you like to do? What are your passions, what are you good at? Women like to learn new things, can you teach her something? Can you show her good places to go? Take her out somewhere to eat, it doesn't need to be fancy and expensive, but just good food, or where there are interesting fun people. Take her a walk on the beach, the park, go sit on the swings, watch the sunset, put the world to rights. Get to know her and what makes her tick and so the next time you can take her somewhere she really will enjoy, surprise her.
smackie9 Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 Women want to be romanced/brain stimulated/feel special/appreciated. It's not about what YOU want, it's about what SHE wants that unlocks the door.
Author pjm123 Posted July 18, 2015 Author Posted July 18, 2015 Ok but obviously if u know how u can get women to do what YOU want. And i am trying to figure out how id want to be pleased from her if i wanted it she trying to say about not fair if i wanted to be pleased or something help Thanks
mike_89 Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 The best advice is to just put your life in front of her. Just make sure your life is interesting enough that she would want to take part in it (if she is willing to take part in your life, she is willing to sleep with you). Forget everything about pleasing her or being a dick. I'm sure you have genuinely interesting stuff to talk about to her, some interesting story about how you saved or cared about your little sister when you were young, the sport you are really passionate about, some cultural program you are engaged in. If you don't have interesting stuff going on in your life, don't expect to get laid. It's just that simple. Women primarily judge a guy on his social life, his looks and if he "is interesting". If all you have in your life is your job and computer games for example, could you blame her for not wanting to sleep with you? Go out and build a life, find things that you can truly be passionate about. Women love it when men can talk about something they love passionately, it makes her feel that you are being genuine and not just chatting her up.
smackie9 Posted July 18, 2015 Posted July 18, 2015 Ok but obviously if u know how u can get women to do what YOU want. And i am trying to figure out how id want to be pleased from her if i wanted it she trying to say about not fair if i wanted to be pleased or something help Thanks Just what I posted...obviously it just goes over your head.
joseb Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 Just what I posted...obviously it just goes over your head. I think he is just looking for head
smackie9 Posted July 19, 2015 Posted July 19, 2015 I think he is just looking for head He can always just pay for it.
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