Bradt Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 Ok.My ex of 7years broke up with me about 3months ago and we have not contacted each other since. About 3 weeks ago I was hooked up with another girl,awesome girl thats a lot younger than me. Since we met its been going great. She is ALMOST everything I want in a girl. Problem is that we already talking about getting engaged.I really want this but know its too soon. She and her baby will be moving in with me soon. Can a fast pace relationship actually work?Besides she feels the same as I. We really want to be together. Any advice?Plus I am over my ex, I have never taken long to get over an ex. Its just hell in the beginning then I move on.
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 If it feels good, do it. When in any doubt - don't.
Tarot777 Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 Go for it, I caught heat for the same thing, but love is love. Enjoy and I wish you the best!
casey.lives Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 you already broke up with your now ex... cost is clear!!! FEEL FREE to feel whatever
Gus Grimly Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 Life is short. Just be grateful you found someone who gives as much as they take. If I found "the one" and they felt the same, it would be a done deal. No questions asked. 1
Author Bradt Posted July 16, 2015 Author Posted July 16, 2015 Thanks guys..me and her spoke and we on the same page. We both have kids from previous relationships, and we both exept that... Her family is on board with this, only thing is I have to think out the box because she never been engaged and I have been...she want simething romantic(read between the lines)...no cliche things...I'm wrecking my brain because I want to make is special....if only i can find a dragon and a dinosaur and things....
foolinlove79 Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 Wow. Do you not think it might be a bit soon to be getting so serious. I mean date sure but you dont even know them that well. It takes at least 6 months to get to know someone well. At least. Sure things would be going great. You are in the honeymoon phase where you are enamored with them. Sorry to be the pessimist here. I hope it works out for you though. 1
Author Bradt Posted July 16, 2015 Author Posted July 16, 2015 I know you are right. I been in relationships before. It is the honeymoon phase yeah. Thats the scary part....With her I don't have to pretend, I'm just myself and so is she. My best friend is going out with with her friend and me and her parents know each other for a year now. I met her last year but she was still seeing her ex and my ex broke up with me at that time(before she came back and f'd me up even furthur).We didn't speak than(last year). From the 6 serious relationships I've been in, this is the first time I actually honoustly feel I want to be with a girl and tie the knot. As a virgo guy,this is huge for me(for those who knows these things). Its like we've known each other for a long time....why should there be something like a honeymoon phase...I'l give it some time before I pop the question.At least 6 months. But she will be moving in with me before than. Thanks all
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