yxalitis Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 (edited) Been over a year since I left "Fay", we are now good friends, which I guess is a good sign that the relationship had good underpinnings. As we bowled (she got a 166!) I told Fay about my last date: “Clara”, how I met her on the same dating site I met Fay, and how, it turned out, she had dated the same guy Fay was seeing behind my back when we were together!! That sparked quite a lot of interest! When, what happened, did they have sex, how long ago? I didn’t give her many details, as I only knew the tiniest amount myself, but told Fay that the other girl didn’t like him, thought he was an arsehole, and only saw him twice. He tried to contact her half a dozen times before giving up (She showed me the string of missed calls on her phone, yep, same guy) We got back to bowling…and who should call me… CLARA! I mean, of all the timing! And why has she called me at all? She seemed pretty broken up when we last spoke. (Crying, “you broke my heart” I didn’t want to fall in love…” Because I was in a bowling place (noisy), I told her I’d call back. I then texted her a short “Thanks for calling” note. She replies back: “I do not want to get involved, I called to just say hello” Yep, so the mixed signals girl is performing as expected… When we finish bowling, Fay wants me to call Clara again…”I want to talk to her, we could be good Chinese friends” I avoid that one...made some excuses about asking her first...and I head off. And then, as I’m driving home, my daughter calls, her cat has been hit by a car, come to the emergency vet clinic waaaaay across town. (Cat’s OKAY, nothing $2,000 worth of surgery can’t fix) And THEN as I’m driving there, in the confusion, I dial the wrong number and speak to May..a contact from the dating site I still had in my phone.. And we have an amazing conversation, really hit it off, and despite all my previous posts about not dating for a while, well, I’m taking this one as providence…we are have a date on Friday. Then at the vets, Clara calls again, says she shouldn't have called me, that's she drunk (only takes her one glass of the cheap sweet Italian garbage she likes), but starts to talk about not wanting to fall in love...blah blah...I tell her that I'm in the emergency vet clinic with my distraught daughter, and end the call. Maybe I'll become a Buddhist monk, they like cats... And write a book about all this... Edited July 15, 2015 by yxalitis
DaisyBug Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 So, is Clara the "Flanders"? I didn't realize she started contacting you again! As for May, this one sounds promising! Good Luck Friday!!
Author yxalitis Posted July 16, 2015 Author Posted July 16, 2015 So, is Clara the "Flanders"? I didn't realize she started contacting you again! As for May, this one sounds promising! Good Luck Friday!! No, Clara is the wealthy lady who kept flip flopping about what she needed/wanted in a relationship: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/535506-now-she-wants-go-exclusive-wah I doubt I'll ever hear from Christian lady again..I didn't bother giving her a pseudonym. Yeah, I think I need a good person in my life...here's hoping!
DaisyBug Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 (edited) No, Clara is the wealthy lady who kept flip flopping about what she needed/wanted in a relationship: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/535506-now-she-wants-go-exclusive-wah I doubt I'll ever hear from Christian lady again..I didn't bother giving her a pseudonym. Yeah, I think I need a good person in my life...here's hoping! Oh, I didn't read that one. Geez, Yxalitis! I can't keep track of all these womens!! So are you breaking your Asian streak or is she Lucky #7? Edited July 16, 2015 by DaisyBug
Author yxalitis Posted July 16, 2015 Author Posted July 16, 2015 Oh, I didn't read that one. Geez, Yxalitis! I can't keep track of all these womens!! Lemme guess... May is another Asian lady? yeah....
DaisyBug Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 You caught me before my edit. I don't blame ya - I love me some Asian mens!
Author yxalitis Posted July 16, 2015 Author Posted July 16, 2015 You caught me before my edit. I don't blame ya - I love me some Asian mens! You're Asian...right?
Author yxalitis Posted July 16, 2015 Author Posted July 16, 2015 Oh, I didn't read that one. Geez, Yxalitis! I can't keep track of all these womens!! So are you breaking your Asian streak or is she Lucky #7? Pseudonym - (Nationality) - summary - status Fay - (Chinese - born) - Cheated on me with arsehole ex bf - still friends Joanna - (Chinese, raised in Aus)- just dated and "heavy petting" - still friends Kay - (Formerly Karen, but I hate that name) (Chinese Malay) - 9 month relationship never truly loved me - NC Cat - (Chinese Malay) - FB - now maybe sort of GF...kinda Jenny - (Japanese Taiwanese) former FB - NC Clara - (Chinese) dated 6 weeks, FWB, then she abruptly fell in love - Complicated Flanders - (Chinese) - dated - NC May...too early to tell So, yeah...Lucky number 7 Actually, seeing as how these girls are Asian, maybe it'll be lucky number 8!
DaisyBug Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 You're Asian...right? Nope, white girl! I don't JUST like Asian men, though. I like the fact that Asian men are basically hairless (except in expected places) and are not overly masculine. Their features are softer. They also age very well. An Asian male friend of mine calls it the AAA gene - "Anti-Aging Asian."
Author yxalitis Posted July 16, 2015 Author Posted July 16, 2015 Nope, white girl! I don't JUST like Asian men, though. I like the fact that Asian men are basically hairless (except in expected places) and are not overly masculine. Their features are softer. They also age very well. An Asian male friend of mine calls it the AAA gene - "Anti-Aging Asian." I don't JUST like Asian women either. Prefer, yes, but I'm certainly not exclusive. But, it's funny, Asian women seem to like my look, I get called "Handsome" far more often by them then white girls. And...this "lady" http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/537927-rudest-girl-i-ever-met Was the first non-Asian date I have dated for ages...and...yeah...
DaisyBug Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 Pseudonym - (Nationality) - summary - status Fay - (Chinese - born) - Cheated on me with arsehole ex bf - still friends Joanna - (Chinese, raised in Aus)- just dated and "heavy petting" - still friends Kay - (Formerly Karen, but I hate that name) (Chinese Malay) - 9 month relationship never truly loved me - NC Cat - (Chinese Malay) - FB - now maybe sort of GF...kinda Jenny - (Japanese Taiwanese) former FB - NC Clara - (Chinese) dated 6 weeks, FWB, then she abruptly fell in love - Complicated Flanders - (Chinese) - dated - NC May...too early to tell So, yeah...Lucky number 7 Actually, seeing as how these girls are Asian, maybe it'll be lucky number 8! Well, you are certainly never without company, I see!! Too bad none of them seem to stick.
Author yxalitis Posted July 16, 2015 Author Posted July 16, 2015 Well, you are certainly never without company, I see!! Too bad none of them seem to stick. Tell me...
DaisyBug Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 And...this "lady" http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/537927-rudest-girl-i-ever-met Was the first non-Asian date I have dated for ages...and...yeah... I did see that thread - unbelievable! Might as well stick with what works best.
Author yxalitis Posted July 16, 2015 Author Posted July 16, 2015 I did see that thread - unbelievable! Might as well stick with what works best. That's my thinking... But I'm only seeing May because I already had her number from previous chats, as I have disconnected my online profile. If it doesn't work out, I'm taking a break for a couple months.
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