Author CalvinM Posted July 26, 2015 Author Posted July 26, 2015 Call me dramatic, but I'm getting the feeling she's talking to her ex again. After a few months of silence, he's now been commenting and liking her fb posts again. She was being playful tonight though. I know she's having her time of the month, so I got her some chocolate covered cranberries. All I can think about is that her sister was pushing her to settle down with me and hoping we'd start a family in the next couple years. They never really liked her ex. She is probably seeking comfort with her ex, but his issues still exist, much like mine did when My ex left. Difference is, I've changed. He can't support himself, so she's never have kids with him. He also wanted to move her away from her family and doesn't speak French. I was using her tablet the other day (mine was dead and she's packed up all my cables) and I was looking at the calendar. There was an entry that said her exes name CT Scan. It's not proof they're still talking, but it struck me as odd.
Author CalvinM Posted July 27, 2015 Author Posted July 27, 2015 Sunday she had a pool party planned. The previous Monday I went out on a date and she found out about it reading my emails/texts on my computer. Wed morning she uninvited me by saying "I think you should make other plans on sunday...it's going to be weird with you around." She said it was going to be her family, and that they all know we're broken up. Wed afternoon she apologized and said she'd been harsh and that I could drop by to say hello to her family, have a hot dog, but she didn't want me "hanging around". The pool is in our backyard, btw. Sunday rolls around, she's home for work around 4 and I'm off work, so I ask if there's anything I can do to help, etc. She was in a really good mood and said "Go for a swim and relax, my family will be here in 20 mins." She even asked which one of her bikinis I prefer. She's giving me sangria, offering me food and when her sister and family arrive, I offer to help bring stuff in. Her dog has this annoying habit of going in the pool, coming out and shaking himself off. It's only a matter of time before it starts annoying her family, so she asks me to take him inside. I come back out and she asks if my friend has text me back, and that maybe I should make other plans, so I say good night to her parents (avoiding her sister, since I'm getting the vibe she doesn't want me there) and head inside. Twenty minutes or so later her mom came in and asked me to come back out. She said "as far as I'm concerned you're part of this family, so you can come join us." So I come back out and my ex is back to being friendly again even calling me babe, as in "Babe, can you pass the...". Even her sister is acting friendlier. Her family leave and I'm on the couch. Shes on her computer and I'd love nothing more than to walk up behind her, kiss her neck, but I know I can't. She works Monday at 7 am, she closes the bedroom door and goes to bed.
Author CalvinM Posted July 29, 2015 Author Posted July 29, 2015 My ex and I have been broken up for a little over a month. We still live together in a basement apartment until I move into my new place August 1st. We moved in together way too soon and then I got sick (bronchitis), which put a lot of stress on an early relationship. If you need further back story, read the other threads. I've been trying to repair things the past week and a half, culminating in a sort of date night last night where we made dinner together and watch a movie on the couch. On my way to work you sent this text "Hope you have a good night xo". She hasn't sent me a good night text in weeks. Then a bit later she sent this "We had fun last night, reminded me when we started dating...and it was nice cuddling and I really appreciate you not pushing the cuddles too much." I'm wondering if that text is breadcrumbs to make herself feel better about the breakup, or if there's a chance for reconciling here?
Author CalvinM Posted July 30, 2015 Author Posted July 30, 2015 (edited) This afternoon I bought some snacks for us. Her favourite chips and candy. I also bought a couple beers, cleaned the dishes and made us dinner. She came home around 5, and we ate by the pool. She said that this week has been really great and that I've given her a lot to think about. She's also been giving me a lot of hugs lately. Usually when she comes home from work, but tonight when I left the bedroom she was waiting in the kitchen with her arms stretched out just waiting. I took the opportunity to grab her ass and kiss her on the cheek. As I was leaving for work she asked if I'd lost some weight recently, and said "you look good." Edited July 30, 2015 by CalvinM
Justme1977 Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 Sounds promising? Maybe asks her on an "outside" date
casey.lives Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 Not to be snide: You're dating!! dinner and a movie and being affectionate.. um how much more of a reconciliation do you need? Breadcrumbs is .. him asking a friend of a friend about you.. or driving by at night but nothing ..
Morphine Posted July 30, 2015 Posted July 30, 2015 Lucky bastard!!!!! Awesome news! Just be careful!! Reconciliation happens but the RS maybe be weaker...but also a lot stronger!
Author CalvinM Posted July 30, 2015 Author Posted July 30, 2015 Not to be snide: You're dating!! dinner and a movie and being affectionate.. um how much more of a reconciliation do you need? Breadcrumbs is .. him asking a friend of a friend about you.. or driving by at night but nothing .. We live together, so it's hardly as obvious as you'd think it would be.. I worked last night and she came into the bedroom during her lunch break and gave me a kiss to thank me for fixing her computer. I was half asleep, so I didn't get a chance to react beyond mumbling something. But I'd say we're very slowly drifting back together. I couldn't be happier. 1
Author CalvinM Posted July 30, 2015 Author Posted July 30, 2015 I'm happy to say we're on the road to recovery. It's going to take time, but I feel like we both want to work out our differences.
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