lovesick3 Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 Ex and I broke up and we had back and forth contact for 1 month. I recently hit her up (she broke up with me) and we went out to eat. She told me that I should just move on and it will never be like it was before (she thought about it for a bit before telling me this) our big fight that caused the end of a 4 month relationship. She said she had feelings before that but that one fight just killed it all. Now after dinner we went back to her place and had sex and continued for the past three days. She tells me we have to stop but she also doesn't hold back to my advances and we are still in good terms as of now. What does this all mean? Is she still confused because its too soon and she is still healing? I like her a lot and told her she was worth pursuing but her signals are mixed. I won't do no contact because she says she wants me to move on, but her actions speak differently. I think she is trying to test me out to see if things will be different. Any suggestions?
preraph Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 She's not testing you. You did something to disgust her to the point where she knows she'll never be able to respect you or consider you a serious prospect again. But she's used to having sex with you and you can have sex while still writing someone off as anything more serious. At some point, she will have to cut you off to move on.
boroim Posted July 21, 2015 Posted July 21, 2015 "Is she still confused because its too soon and she is still healing?" No, she s not confused, she probably didn't love you before the big fight. Now she's just using you to satisfy her needs - sex. Soon as some new guy will come by, she'll be gone. That's just my humble opinion.
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