taki97 Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 My boyfriend of two years recently broke up with me - he said that he hadn't been as happy for the passed month or two, and that he didn't feel as though things were the same anymore; constant arguing had made him feel as though all of the good things about our relationship were slowly being overshadowed. We have broken up before, and got back together a week or two later - so I won't lie in saying that I had hopes of a reconciliation, however he seemed a lot more serious about the break up this time. So I decided to enter into a period of no contact; we both have vacations coming up and I thought that when we were back from them in about a month's time, I would contact him to see if we could hang out. However I unfortunately broke the no contact rule today, I felt so weak! But I saw that on instagram he had begun following loads of hot girls, and then deleted all pictures of me and him off of his account. i just had to ask him why he did this - he told me that he didn't want to give off 'false impressions' of him being in a relationship to anyone (I assume he meant girls) and this crushed me. However, he still has all of our pictures on Twitter (there are many) and on Facebook. I asked if he really wanted to just erase me from his life, and he said of course not, he just didn't want people to think that we were still in a relationship. As I said, this crushed me, but I just accepted it, and ended up deleting any pictures that I had up of us. At the end of the conversation I asked (probably foolishly) if he would be up for meeting to hang when I got back from my vacation, and he said 'okay yeah'. We had the most amazing and loving relationship, the passed few weeks had been difficult and I can't deny that we were arguing lots and lots, but I feel like that is at the forefront of his mind right now - it has overshadowed the amazing relationship that we had overall, and all the intense love that we shared. He told me that he will always think of me as his first true love, but at the moment he can't see us being together because it wasn't making him as happy as it had been. I just want to know what I can do to get him back really - or if there is any hope. It is undoubtable that we were madly in love, he professed it every single day, and always prioritised me and went out of his way to surprise me or treat me. The emotional connection was so so strong and intense, perhaps too intense for him, and he said that he was becoming scared about a future with us because he was so young, (and his parents had recently asked him whether we were going to get married soon hahah). Any thoughts would be useful and helpful!
emi Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 Uh how old are you and your lova-lova ex boyfriend? And how is it a LDR? Even i dont really understand what keeping you in this dead and gone relationship i strongly advise you to drop it and move on for your sake.
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