my ex boyfriend....was an odd person i admit, i think there's somethin wrong w/ me

[ashley83]

ok....im not sayin this because I'm bitter that he broke up w/ me, but my 3 ex-boyfriends have all been italian (its a stinkin pattern)...and the latest was odd....When I met him for the first time he was extremely obnoxious....and he was soo nervous around me, like he'd talk and talk and talk....and wouldn't let me get a word in edge-wise

 

and would just stare at my body, and he'd get erections out in public just lookin at me, which was kinda strange....like it happened all the time.....He talked soooo much, and none of my friends liked him, but STUPID ME kept talkin to him and grew to love him. Anyway, he would say things like...."if a girl hits me, id hit her back" out of the blue and i'd be like.....'are you serious' and hed say hell yeah which scared me......also, he came up with a nickname for me (peanuthead) and he would not for anything call me by my real name....it was insane!! but i got used to it of course because i loved him....but lookin back im like whats wrong w/ him.

 

he said that he loved me more than anything...but a lot of times his actions didn't show it...its just i dunno....i dont understand how i fell in love with a guy that none of my friends/family really liked and why i'm still in love with him.....ahhhh i had to vent

[ridinbikes247]

about like my ex g/f...how did i grow to like the biggest bitch who didnt even care to call and say hey or care to hang out with me ..... i think for me it was the looks, hott chciks are bitches, ive been talkin to this new chick who is so awesome....but her looks isnt all that great and it makes me look back to how hott of a girl i did have but how big of a bitch she was...i think i just thought i liked her cause of her looks...all my other exes who treated me like she did i didnt give them the time of day, but this chick here i would just because of her looks...

 

maybe u think italian guys are hott and u just like him cause his looks,and dont really notice it ?

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ifes crazy

[ashley83]

he wasn't hot....that's the thing....i mean i thought he was ugly the first time i met him lol...but he grew on me because he was full blown pursuing me. Then I kept tryin to break up w/ him but always went back....now he broke up w/ me....and it's been a week

[Merin]

Wow... An Obnoxious Guy who never listens but talks all of the time... that gets a chubby at 7~11, that calls you Peanut Head, that all your friends and family cannot stand... Sweeeetttt! Whats the "down side"

 

LOL I'm sorry Girl... that for real sucks!

 

I guess the thing to keep in mind here is this... honestly I don't think it's possible to really Love someone who makes you so unhappy and is disrespectful... perhaps you loved the idea of who you wanted him to be...

 

Saying I love you is the easy part... Anyone can do it... it's showing the other person you mean it that matters:)

 

Hang in there!

[ashley83]

Originally posted by Merin

 

perhaps you loved the idea of who you wanted him to be...

 

 

lol.....as hard as it is to believe he had his good points...but everyone and i mean everyone...could not believe i was actually goin out w/ him.....but maybe i did fall in love w/ the idea of who i wanted him to be

[Merin]

Originally posted by ashley83

lol.....as hard as it is to believe he had his good points...but everyone and i mean everyone...could not believe i was actually goin out w/ him.....but maybe i did fall in love w/ the idea of who i wanted him to be

 

Yeah.. My EX had his good points too... like uh... he was potty trained and uh... did I mention he was potty trained?

 

 

I Loved the "Potential" I wanted to see in him... it was never there... but g'damn it he was potty trained!

[ashley83]

LOL.......for a while i was tryin to understand my ex's thought process behind the stuff he'd say and do, i was thinkin.......gosh do you WANT to keep me lovin you??!!........ but i gave up tryin to understand

[Weird]

damn...sorry to hear about your adventures with this guy. Sounds like he was a tool.

[NightsEcho]

Merin, can i just say damn your beautiful! I think your ex was crazy.

[Merin]

Originally posted by NightsEcho

Merin, can i just say damn your beautiful! I think your ex was crazy.

 

Awee Thanks!