crazybestie101 Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 I shadow this doctor and i have met this guy who works there. From day 1, we have caught each others eyes. For the first week, we didn't speak but he would randomly come to ask me if need any help. Despite of us not talking we would share eye contact while passing by each other. Once i was asked to work under him. We were alone in room.. I thought it was best time to spark conversation. He seems very shy guy and hardly talks to his coworkers. We started talking about our lives. He went on with his future career plans, how he wants to live his life and who matters most to him. One day we ended up in lunch room together. He randomly ask me about my age..??? Since then we have talking , smiling a lot lately. He would always talk to me when we would be alone.He would try to show it off about things in life. He would stare at me when i am with bunch of people, raise his eyebrows when he sees me while i am walking around, would always be around me. If i am talking to other guys , he would always be around. I know all this may sound stupid but i don't want to run my imagination go wild.. I know this is work environment and this all shouldn't be happening. I know he wouldnt be asking me for my number being at work. But does this guy seem interested? I don't mind initiating but i wouldn't risk anything for opportunity i was given (shadowing).. Any guys out there wants to share their inputs, thank you.
StalwartMind Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 If he is shy and likes you, he will more than likely appreciate your attention and conversation, especially when just you two, so no one else can ruin the moment. Make him feel comfortable, kindness, caring and being receptive never hurts any type of relationship. Sometimes being patient and slow can yield the best results, since new territory may make one feel less open. You might have to initiate, and since you don't mind, that is a plus. Work environments can always be problematic of course, but there is also no reason why two grown ups can't be adults about it, no matter how things unfold. Unfortunately many adults tend to act like babies, hopefully you feel strong enough so you can handle whichever outcome.
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