strugglingrobert Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 I am looking for what most of you would think by reading this message. Could this be only a friend or is this something that you would only tell someone that you love? Let me know! "I don't know exactly how to describe our friendship because I feel a unique connection with you that I have not experienced much in my 35 years its effortless and I feel like i could talk to you for a lifetime and never get tired of it" This message is from a married women to a male coworker.
Gloria25 Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 I would need to know what the heck is going on in her marriage as to why she feels this "unique" connection with you. I mean, she could just like you cuz you're showing her attention her husband has stopped giving her and it didn't matter if the attention was coming from you or anyone else. Thing is, people in the workplace spend like 8 hrs a day - 40 hrs a week with others, pretty much more time than they even spend with their SO!!! So, they get familiar with others and sometimes "bonding" happens cuz they get along - share commonalities etc and then they think they have some euphoric "connection" that they never had with their SO. Well geesh, you're gonna tell me you married someone you had nothing in common with and/or wasn't ever connected to Maybe if you nurtured your RL more than nurturing your work relationships more you'd feel this "connection" with your husband So, I would take this message from her with a grain of salt and tell her to go work on her marriage or divorce her husband and leave you alone. 1
Author strugglingrobert Posted July 15, 2015 Author Posted July 15, 2015 This is what my wife sent to a coworker and she is claiming they are only friends. Thanks for the reply.
jen1447 Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 Sounds to me like a friend leaning dangerously wide into the realm of romance possibilities. 3
Gloria25 Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 Sounds to me like a friend leaning dangerously wide into the realm of romance possibilities. Agreed ^^^
preraph Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 She clearly said it was a friendship. End of story.
Brigit_1 Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 I am looking for what most of you would think by reading this message. Could this be only a friend or is this something that you would only tell someone that you love? Let me know! "I don't know exactly how to describe our friendship because I feel a unique connection with you that I have not experienced much in my 35 years its effortless and I feel like i could talk to you for a lifetime and never get tired of it" This message is from a married women to a male coworker. NOT JUST FRIENDS. Very VERY intimate. A heterosexual woman would never say this to her girlfriends. Emotional affair. 1
Dreamworld Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 This is what my wife sent to a coworker and she is claiming they are only friends. Thanks for the reply. Friends. Yeah right. This is akin to the classic "i feel like you are my soulmate" line people start affairs with. Jeez is there a class for lines to use before entering an EA? ( which often leads to a PA)
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