nhoffme Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 I'm not really sure what to think about this guy and what his intentions are. I met him online about a month ago. We started talking and agreed that we would go out to dinner on his night off. We did and ended up staying at the restaurant talking long after we were done eating. He walked me to my car where we chatted a bit more before we both left. Afterwards he texted me saying that he had a lot of fun and that his friends were asking him a thousand questions but that he had nothing but positive things to say. Since then we've tried to hang out once a week, always on the day he has off from work. We have hung out four different times now, each time at a different location but each time the date always just ends with a hug. I always let him text me first mainly because at first I wasn't too sure how I felt and now that I know how I feel I don't want to seem to push the issue and make him run. He seems like he is a little on the shy side. The first date there were some awkward silence moments but we would start talking again and things were be fine. Since then things have really seemed to get better and now if we aren't talking it doesn't feel as awkward as it used to. Tonight I asked him where he thought this might be going and he said he wasn't sure because he hasn't had a serious relationship in awhile so this is all new to him. But he said that he would love to continue hanging out again and again until we figure things out. I guess I'm just airing on the side of caution because I'm not really sure how to read him. He seems interested and he texts me every day but he doesn't seem to talk as much or as long as what he used to when we first started talking. However, he's always saying he wants to see me again and hang out. He's said I could come do my homework on his deck, or go to the restaurant where he bartends and have a drink on him. I have never had a situation where I've been on four different dates with a guy and he hasn't even tried to hold my hand or kiss me so I'm not really sure what to make of it all.
Jacob_Duluoz Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 Are you actually interested? He might just be reading off you as to what and when he should do. It seems you two are hanging out rather than dating in the more traditional sense. Is that meeting your expectation? His intentions would seem to be casual.
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