Lutts21 Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Hi everyone, first time poster. I was doing some searching for the problem I am having and came across this site with a little help but couldn't find my exact situation. So here it goes and be prepared it's going to be long Met this girl through pof and we hit it off and messaged back and forth for a couple days then she gave me her number and told me I could text her if I wanted to instead. So we started texting and things started to get cuter and cuter. Like cute emojis and all that. Last week she told me how perfect of a guy I am because I alwasy text her good morning and good night. And that she was already stating to like me a little. So we finally got a date setup, which I thought went awesome and she said she had a good time. I went to her and we went out to eat with her friends (double date) then went back to her house cuz she wanted to have a fire. I met her parents and her brother. Which I thought that went well too. After her parents went inside she got even more flirty and sat on my lap and held my hand. Then it was late so I was going to go home and we walked out to my truck and we hugged a couple times then kissed and she told me to text her when I got home. So I did but she had already fallen asleep so I texted her good morning the next morning and everything was the same as it was before. Cute texts, sent me a picture her mom took of us by the fire and everything seemed like it was going great for the first time in I don't know how long. Well then Sunday something just seemed off. We planned on her coming to me Sunday night to hang out and she cancelled on me cuz of the weather (which is fine cuz we were going to go fishing and it was raining). So I said okay, when do I get to see you again and she said I don't know, my grandparents are coming this week and I have that computer traiming to do so I said oh okay. And she asked what was wrong and I said nothing I was just hoping I'd get to see you. And she said I never said I didn't want to see you so don't worry. The we barely talked Sunday and I texted her goodnight and went to sleep then she texted me, sorry I fell asleep! So I texted her yesterday morning and said goodmorning and that's okay I was out cold after I said goodnight. She didn't text me til after lunch and just said hahaha I passed out hard for some reason. I didn't reply then she sent me a couple snapchats which I just replied with a snap of the room I'm redoing at my house. And haven't talked to her since. She sent me a snap today that was of her computer with that training with the words blah blah blah blah. And I didn't reply and haven't heard from her yet. My buddy said to just keep doing what I'm doing and call her Thursday and ask to take her out to dinner this weekend and see what happens. What has me going insane is all the things she said before Sunday then Sunday she didn't say any of that kind of stuff. One of the snaps she sent me Friday before our date was a selfie that said can't wait to see potential bae. So I don't know what the hell is going on. If you need more info or have any questions just let me know as I might have left some things out And thanks in advance for reading through this long post and helping me out
Author Lutts21 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 Something else I don't understand is she hasn't texted me to see if something's wrong since I didn't text her goodnight yesterday or goodmorning this morning. Actually havent really had any contact with her the past two days.
smackie9 Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Sounds like she's busy....stop being so damn needy. She sensed it when you went kinda cold on her when she told you she was going to be busy.....you get crazy she gonna run. Stop playing games and pick up the phone and call her.
Author Lutts21 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 (edited) I've talked to two friends about it and they both said to just back off like I did and she'll contact me because she has me right where she wants me, but my gut says I should contact her. Doing that has always screwed it up for me in that past tho which is why I don't know what to do. And the last two times I've complimented her she just ignored it, so that's when I started to back off. And I'm 22 and she's 21 by the way. Edited July 14, 2015 by Lutts21
Fleur de cactus Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 So far I don't see where is the problem. Sorry maybe I missed it, but what are your concerns?
Author Lutts21 Posted July 15, 2015 Author Posted July 15, 2015 Should I stay backed off and let her contact me or should I make contact? Something just felt off on Sunday so I backed off to give her a little more space
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