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I don't really have a hobby that I actively practice. I know how to play the flute and read music....I own a guitar but never have gotten around to taking lessons.....I dunno if i'd like guitar......i have painted in the past...maybe i could paint more....i dunno...............what to do....what have ya'll done, what hobbies make you happy?

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this is going to be painful...I know...but

 

R.E.A.D.I.N.G.....Yeah books are "fun"...get lost in one...:)

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good idea!.....i do need to read more, last book i read was 'the pianist'............hmmm i oughta do guitar lessons....there's somethin about me and music....i dunno though.....are guitar-playin girls attractive to guys??

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Books, TV, and internet have helped me. Also spending time with my children. If you don't have children, perhaps some charity work might help you, you'd feel useful and your mind would be occupied. Nothing can make you love him less like a new boyfriend, but it's not so easy to find someone that you will really like. What matters is to keep your mind busy.

You should do something easy anf funny or even the opposite extreme - deal with other people's problems that are much bigger, but not something that reminds you of him.

Working out is good for stress relief, but it's better to do it with someone else so you can not think of him. Go out with friends and have fun, but don't drink too much cuz the alcohol will make you crave for him even more.

Hope this helps.

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Ummm I'm a guy who plays guitar and I know if I met a lady who shared the same musical love as I do ...I'd be very attracted to her...IMHO...:)

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I love hobbies.

 

Here are some ideas:

 

Start learning a new language. Find an English/? exchance. You teach them English, they teach you their language. These are usually free. I have one of these. We meet once a week.

 

Knitting is cool. Learn how to do that. It keeps your mind busy.

 

Take a cooking class.

 

Re-learn the flute.

 

Train for a marathon.

 

Start writing your feelings down and make a short story.

 

Join a volleyball, baseball, bowling (whatever) league.

 

Join a book club.

 

Take a painting class.

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Hi there,

-I play guitar, drums, sing, formed a band with my friends

-Bought a new car that was standard...learning on it was fun (intense on hills)

-Got a new job that challenged me

-Camping is always fun

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