grokcahsevol Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 if you dump your BF for any reason and you still have feelings for him, love him and all that, and after having some space and time would you find it a turn off if he started reaching out to you, or should YOU be the one that reaches out? I'm sure a lot depends on the situations, but I feel I've learned that if they are emotionally attached to you still, they want the guy to do the chasing, but if they do then they see it as a turn off.
Arieswoman Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 grokcahsevol, I really don't understand the question. If I dumped a guy that I loved then it would be because;- a. He didn't love me the way I loved him. b. He'd done something really $hi££y to me c. We agreed we were incompatible. So there is no way I would want to re-kindle anything. If I finished with a guy we would be done. End of. 1
casey.lives Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 if I dump the guy(because sometimes it takes hindsight and we can make mistakes) I would make the contact to repair or reconstruct
Ariess10 Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 grokcahsevol, I really don't understand the question. If I dumped a guy that I loved then it would be because;- a. He didn't love me the way I loved him. b. He'd done something really $hi££y to me c. We agreed we were incompatible. So there is no way I would want to re-kindle anything. If I finished with a guy we would be done. End of. Aries can be cold cold 1
Arieswoman Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 No, Arieswoman is smart Aries10, Why would I want to take a guy back if ;- a. he didn't love me the same way - so I should tread water until he came round?? b. He's treated me $hi££ily - I should accept that ?? c. We were incompatible - that I should take himn back and spoil my chances of meeting a guy I was really compatible with ??
finalendeavor Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 The same goes for girls as it goes for guys; if she's really interested, if she really wants you in her life, she will seek you out, regardless of the circumstances. I pinky promise. 1
ravfour4 Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 @arieswoman - because maybe you made an emotional mistake or didn't understand his point of view or weren't explaining your issues well enough for him to do anything about it 1
NopeNah Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Not a lady,but I would not chase anyone. If they want me,whether it be employment,friendship or relationship..They know where to find me.
contel3 Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 I wouldn't dump someone I have feelings for unless the relationship was so bad (for whatever reason) I needed to get out. Once I've been pushed to this point there's no way I will ever reconsider. So no I wouldn't want him to chase me. 1
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