Southern Sun Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 I've gone total NC on my xMM, no warning, no explanation. We proclaimed love and all that too, during the A (though I see it differently now). But from my perspective, he was never going to let me go. We had said goodbye, but he kept coming back, kept pursuing circular conversations, kept trying to rope me back in, kept pressing his own agenda. I was never going to "win" against him. My only way out was to disappear. Could that be an explanation for yours, or something similar? I don't know. In my case, my xMM was a hard-core boundary pusher. He was the dominant one, never accepted no for an answer. I'm not sure if that would apply in your case. I didn't feel I had a choice.
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