starone0101 Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 hello every body.... i am 22 years old and i met a women. she is my customer and i should creating a software for her in 2 weeks. when in saw her she was togheter with her baby. i like her and i wanna she be my girlfriend. please say how can i suggestion? she isnyoung and cute and answer all my sms
yxalitis Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Baby, shouldn't be a problem. Child would be different, but a baby just eats, pops, cries, and sleeps. Go for it like you would normally, just make sure to show an interest in the baby. 2
green_tea Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Has she given any signs that she likes you? Other than answering your text messages? She is your customer - it would be unprofessional of you to make a move on her in my opinion.
Author starone0101 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 Baby, shouldn't be a problem. Child would be different, but a baby just eats, pops, cries, and sleeps. Go for it like you would normally, just make sure to show an interest in the baby. hmmm ok i show it. sorry im not sure she has husband or not? how can ask it? is it good about suggestion after finish the project?
Author starone0101 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 Has she given any signs that she likes you? Other than answering your text messages? She is your customer - it would be unprofessional of you to make a move on her in my opinion. maybe she answer because i do her project. but please advice me how van show interest me in this time and how can tell suggestion her. thank u
lolablue17 Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 A young woman with a baby usually has a husband. 1
mr_dave Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 A young woman with a baby usually has a husband. Not round my neck of the woods! 4
Author starone0101 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 A young woman with a baby usually has a husband. alright. so please tell me what i do?
Author starone0101 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 what is best conversation with each other?
joseb Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 Maybe you should ask an innocent question about her husband - to see if she has one
Author starone0101 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 Maybe you should ask an innocent question about her husband - to see if she has one could tell me some example about ask question her husband? ofcourse i cant say what is your husband job! infact i'm a little scared.
lolablue17 Posted July 14, 2015 Posted July 14, 2015 You provide her a software. I she doesn't understand something, You can ask "Does your husband know anything about computers"? 1
Author starone0101 Posted July 14, 2015 Author Posted July 14, 2015 You provide her a software. I she doesn't understand something, You can ask "Does your husband know anything about computers"? wow what a good idea.. sorry i have a any question. how can i should start a new conversation? we dont send sms 2 days. i asked many questuon about her project and for this i dont have any idea for start new text
Author starone0101 Posted July 15, 2015 Author Posted July 15, 2015 guys advice me please we dont have any convetsation 3days. this is bad for me
phineas Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 Not round my neck of the woods! Same round here but since mid 30s is more my speed I don't try to date them. However, a woman who is more my speed with a baby is a no-no in my book. They are usually separated or freshly divorced and either super clingy or super flakey and just not worth the trouble.
Radu Posted July 15, 2015 Posted July 15, 2015 If i was in your shoes and the project was a one time thing, i would focus on that, finish it and once the transaction was completed, i would ask her out. If it's not a one time thing, i would gather more information without becoming the desperate wreck that you seem to be becoming. Start looking at alternative women, because you are focusing too much on her and it will ruin the situation.
Author starone0101 Posted July 16, 2015 Author Posted July 16, 2015 hello again we had a long conversation with text. i knew she has a husband he works in another city. i asked many personal question and she answer! so what i do for next step?
Sarabi Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 I am older than you and I wouldn't want to date a man with baggage(if I could help it...which you can't always). If you were my little brother I would say: Just forget it, go out, travel, explore, have fun and find a girl with no ties. Have you been to prison? 22yrs old...do you think your life is over to be wanting a girl with a baby (and she's not an army wife or a widow) at this young age???Sorry to be harsh... I suppose at least this one that you like works. The ones I know of who would be like this are just staying at home, living on benefits, unmarried and at least two (minimum) baby daddies. Also, I think some(not all) only want 1) someone like you to look after the deadbeat's baby that she is currently raising alone and 2) get pregnant ASAP to trap YOU, the kind one who is taking on the deadbeat's kid with your own... Ultimately the decision is yours. Just keep getting to know her maybe and have her as a friend. If she has a husband why are you really trying so hard to get her anyway?
clia Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 She has a husband and she is your customer. You should back off and be professional. 1
smackie9 Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 guys advice me please we dont have any convetsation 3days. this is bad for me Don't worry there are plenty of other women around to go out with.....always have other options.
smackie9 Posted July 16, 2015 Posted July 16, 2015 hello again we had a long conversation with text. i knew she has a husband he works in another city. i asked many personal question and she answer! so what i do for next step? She is just being nice and has no other interest in you....for f^%&* sakes she's married, back off.
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