JS17 Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 then there's the "nice guy" to watch out for...the nice guy that pretends to be a nice guy but turns into a giant a**hole. I call them the wolf in sheeps clothing or my exboyfriend i've dated all the different kinds of "nice guys", there are some pretty good ones out there and they don't always finish last.
Bronzepen Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 I think the proper term for "nice guys" is wussies. In general, women are not attracted to wussies. A wussy will fall under the "friend" relationship and will not develope any further then that.
morrigan Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 When someone talks about a "bad boy", it sounds to me like an immature kid that needs to be paddled and babysat, not exactly my idea of an exciting time.
BigB Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 Originally posted by morrigan When someone talks about a "bad boy", it sounds to me like an immature kid that needs to be paddled and babysat, not exactly my idea of an exciting time. exactly, only instead of a tonka truck he has a muscle car, and a leather jacket.
alphamale Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 Originally posted by BigB exactly, only instead of a tonka truck he has a muscle car, and a leather jacket. ...and all the good looking women, too.
BigB Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale ...and all the good looking women, too. but how long does he have them for?
reservoirdog1 Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 I don't deserve you That, to me, is the reddest of red flags that something is way f*cking wrong with the situation.
Marshbear Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 Originally posted by Bronzepen I think the proper term for "nice guys" is wussies. In general, women are not attracted to wussies. A wussy will fall under the "friend" relationship and will not develope any further then that. I agree with this definition...
whichwayisup Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 I don't deserve you That, to me, is the reddest of red flags that something is way f*cking wrong with the situation. Off topic here, I have a friend who constantly says that to me! She's always saying, Oh I don't deserve a friend like you...WTF. Alpha, I never looked at it in that light, redflag...But now thinking of it, some weird s*** isn't right with her. WTF. What exactly does that mean? I don't deserve you...I'm just trying to fit that into place here. Man, my ass is tingling. Weirded out now.
alphamale Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup Off topic here, I have a friend who constantly says that to me! She's always saying, Oh I don't deserve a friend like you...WTF. we're talkin' bout a woman saying it to a man in the context of a romantic relationship. not woman to woman who are friends, unless u 2 are lesbian lovers
BrotherAaron Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 "Nice Guy" is an expression. When said in context, I think that most people understand what is meant. Not that being assertive and sticking up for yourself makes you a nice guy. I think alphamale is a nice guy... he's just not a "Nice Guy."
alphamale Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 Originally posted by BrotherAaron I think alphamale is a nice guy... he's just not a "Nice Guy." thank you BROTHERAARON, from BROTHER ALPHA. You are a nice guy too...but not a "nice guy" if u know what i mean
whichwayisup Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 we're talkin' bout a woman saying it to a man in the context of a romantic relationship. not woman to woman who are friends, unless u 2 are lesbian lovers ME no lesbian you bad nice guy...
WhereSpiritsRoam Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 Nice guys tend to be very open with their feelings and emotions. This tends to take a lot of the mystery out of them, therefore they become boring. There is no challenge to try and figure out how they feel because they vocalize every emotion. I've had plenty of girls tell me that while they appreciate my openness (and wish more guys were like that), it's so unorthodox that they really don't want to go through the effort of adjusting to my personality. So, nice guys - restrain yourself a little more. Everything in moderation.
alphamale Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 Originally posted by WhereSpiritsRoam Nice guys tend to be very open with their feelings and emotions. I disagree. "Nice guys" don't know how to control their feelings and emotions. THat is their problem. You should be open with your feelings and emotions but you should also know when to say what and when to show what and to what degree. This is what nice guys lack. This is a big difference. A "nice guy" will let a woman know he likes her and then will start to go overboard A "normal guy" will let a woman know he likes her and then back off to see what she does and will respond accordingly and not be too desperate and clingy.
WhereSpiritsRoam Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale I disagree. "Nice guys" don't know how to control their feelings and emotions. THat is their problem. You should be open with your feelings and emotions but you should also know when to say what and when to show what and to what degree. This is what nice guys lack. This is a big difference. A "nice guy" will let a woman know he likes her and then will start to go overboard A "normal guy" will let a woman know he likes her and then back off to see what she does and will respond accordingly and not be too desperate and clingy. Yeah, that's probably more accurate. The question I have is, can guys who are inherently "nice" train themselves to become "normal", or will they always fall back to the same untamed tendencies?
alphamale Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 Originally posted by WhereSpiritsRoam The question I have is, can guys who are inherently "nice" train themselves to become "normal", Why not? I did it.
WhereSpiritsRoam Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale Why not? I did it. Would you care to list your Top 5 tips for "nice" guys? The five most crucial things that they could do to prevent from perpetually being letdown and left saying, "nice guys finish last"?
whichwayisup Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale A "nice guy" will let a woman know he likes her and then will start to go overboard A "normal guy" will let a woman know he likes her and then back off to see what she does and will respond accordingly and not be too desperate and clingy. Now that is bang on.
alphamale Posted May 5, 2005 Posted May 5, 2005 Originally posted by WhereSpiritsRoam Would you care to list your Top 5 tips for "nice" guys? I already did this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t61606/
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